We have daughter, and no matter what happens, he still gonna be her father. I know that even if i decided on divorce, we still must continue communicate on basic level, it's just that right now I'm sick of him. I don't believe that he repentant. He wasn't even honest until the point when I've found out about everything. I don't know if he cut all the contacts with the OWL, at least he said so. We living separatly for month, and things just stayed the same.