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Title: Anger is all I feel
Post by: tennman on Fri Jul 07, 2017 - 12:44:04
I lost a close family member a year ago. Deep sorrow has crossed over to anger. I think about her, and I become very angry because she was gone. I feel anger toward God, toward her suffering, toward my dad being widowed so young. I'm angry that God did nothing. He sat by and didn't help her at all. How could he?

When I'm not angry I just feel down. That's the only word I can think of. Events, songs, or something else will trigger a memory and I become angry again. It's an incredibly strong emotion so I just quickly do something to distract myself. It happens multiple times per day.
Title: Re: Anger is all I feel
Post by: grams on Fri Jul 07, 2017 - 13:30:30

You should understand this............  It is not  GOD's  Fault........... !   

It is this world  we are polluting it and killing  each other  with man's experiments.......

GOD  has given us free will !    GOD does not want us to be HIS puppets........

The more we corrupt  this world  the  sooner   the calling  us home will be here....


By the  way  I lost my  husband  over a year ago.................

It really  hurts.............................  But  I keep thinking   HE  is home with GOD  and not

down here in  pain.    And that makes me feel  better..........  I know  he is in  heaven  and

that sure helps a lot........    I would LOVE  to have him here , but  because of all the  pain

he suffered,   I will  soon see him my self !   Either  for the calling away or  when my body

say's  that is it..........  I  just  pray  I do not have to  have all the pain my husband  had........ !!
Title: Re: Anger is all I feel
Post by: chosenone on Fri Jul 07, 2017 - 19:33:07
Anger is one of the stages of the grief process. Its normal and will pass. Remember that God doesn't cause people to die, it's the enemy who steals, kills and destroys. So be angry at him.
Title: Re: Anger is all I feel
Post by: Ohan on Sun Feb 17, 2019 - 15:15:55
Brother ~ we have all been or will be where you are one day ~ we/I feel your pain ~ I have had this, been where you are ~ think this over with the Lord ~ with his people ~ life is seems is what it is ```

God love and protect you ```
Title: Re: Anger is all I feel
Post by: Choir Loft on Thu Aug 01, 2019 - 15:18:53
I lost a close family member a year ago. Deep sorrow has crossed over to anger. I think about her, and I become very angry because she was gone. I feel anger toward God, toward her suffering, toward my dad being widowed so young. I'm angry that God did nothing. He sat by and didn't help her at all. How could he?

When I'm not angry I just feel down. That's the only word I can think of. Events, songs, or something else will trigger a memory and I become angry again. It's an incredibly strong emotion so I just quickly do something to distract myself. It happens multiple times per day.

How do you know God did nothing?  Were you privy to every stray thought word and deed of the dear departed?  Were you able to determine whether a continued life would be happy and prosperous for the dear departed?  Do you know the mind of God about this issue or do you just propose to dictate His actions always?

Your anger will not allow you to seek or even hear or understand divine providence in the life of your family member.  Was her eternal soul your responsibility? 

Who do you think you are to sit in judgment of God when you know so little about the situation?

CAUTION:  ---> Your <--- eternal soul is your responsibility.  Until and unless you make peace with God's wisdom goodness and love you will get no peace for yourself.   You may even be at risk of judgment.   Do you really want that or is it your true goal in life to continue to harbor a grudge against God for a matter that is in reality none of your business?

that's me, hollering from the choir loft...