In this forum users agree:
-NOT to try to "fix" anyone. Grief is different for everyone and sometimes, but not always, that might involve a questioning of faith and even God. This can be normal and healthy.
-Do NOT tell posters how they feel. You don't know.
-Accept that each person's grief is unique. The only absolute is that loss hurts.
-Do not give advice unless it is asked for.
-Do not condemn anyone for how they feel. And avoid clichés to try to make them feel better as this almost always makes them feel worse.