Although my boyfriend and I are not married, we have been living together for several years and have a small child. We recently rededicated our lives to God - however, prior to this, I uncovered not one, not two, but a slew of different women he has been cheating with.
He has moved out - and when he left he said he didn't love me and just dealt with me for our child - however, now he's back and wants to work it out expects me to believe him and never ask or mention the past - is that even possible? God can do wondrous things - how should we go forward?
the same happened between me and my girlfriend,,
we were living together and me being a backslider,, i kept hearing gods voice, in various ways ,, and all he was asking was for me to come back to him..
i grew up in the church and before i was seperated/divorced back in 1999 i was going to church and reading my bible and enjoying my life in the lord..
things happened in my divorce that , i just went astray,,
me and my girlfriend have a beautiful 4 yr old son,, and we thank god everyday that he turned out to be healthy, he was a very high risk baby..
during this time i was out playing and doing what i wanted to do,, and i thought i would never get caught,, all the while ignoring gods voice.
my girlfriend found out everything,, and i thank god that she did,, i truly believe that god showed her these things to get me back on track with him,, my world and my life was shaken,, and now i thank him for never leaving me..
i also decided to move to my moms house.. and i said the same thing about not loving her,, BUT this was prior to my rededication..
we r now back together.. and we are both growing in the lord.. and with her being a baby christian i have been there for her in her time of need, with her spiritual warfare.. our son has been doing increasingly well in school and my oldest son (from my marriage) has noticed a huge difference in my girlfriend,, we do plan on getting married soon, and cant wait to live our lives together in the lord.. we are going to church,, praying,, praising,, and reading our bibles..
i witness to people at work,, and she has let her light shine so bright that her coworkers have noticed a difference in her aswell..
god can do wonderous things,, and he works in mysterious ways,, his plan for us is one we can not understand,, but if we submit to his will then everything will fall into place ..
we have left everything in gods hands. i truly dont believe that he wants to break up our family, but whatever his will is for our future then it shall be done..
trust in the lord, with all thine heart and lean not unto thine own understanding..
it is amazing that noone on here has mentioned anything about you both being saved.. and that god will bless you with your family...
DONT RUN,, STAY,, PRAY,, SEEK THE LORD FOR ANSWERS, NOT YOUR OWN ANSWERS.... YOU WILL GAIN TRUST AGAIN IN YOUR BOYFRIEND AND U GUYS WILL BE HAPPY TOGETHER.. TRUST IN GOD
as far as sex goes.. we have our own , what we call "christian sex".. she brushes my hair,, while i massage her feet.. we are learning to love each other all over again.. and we have no problems with sex.. and for me that was my biggest issue before "not enough sex"..
now that we are both in the lord we have desires for each other, but our love for god is greater and to do is will is more important and we know that he will bless our union when we marry..
may god bless you