Grabing and groping, how often?

[armywifenmom]

about 3-5x a day
about once a day
about once a week
rarely

Just curious

[tennman]

Well that's certainly going to have a lot of different factors to consider. I personally have found that flirty things like this keep my marriage in a good place. She comes up and grabs my tush a lot in addition to other areas. The sexual aggressiveness is a great reminder that we're not just roommates, co-parents or business partners but lovers as well.

So I say the more you can flirt and be intimate even when you can't have sex because of the demands of a day, the better.

[farouk]

Ms armywifenmom:

It's important to have an affectionate relationship; how it expresses itself may vary greatly from couple to couple.

I guess you guys have worked it out for you.

about 3-5x a day
about once a day
about once a week
rarely

Just curious

[UtahDad]

She comes up and grabs my tush a lot in addition to other areas. The sexual aggressiveness is a great reminder that we're not just roommates, co-parents or business partners but lovers as well.

AMEN!!!

[lightshineon]

 Whom would be grabbing and groping whom? My answear, would be only when appropriate. Myself, if my husband did that twenty-four seven, that would get on my nerves. I not saying husband is not ever frisky, and somewhat playful at times, but if everytime I passed him, he grabbed and groped, I might take exception to that. Balance in everything, and make sure4 kiddies do not see, brings back a disturbing memory from childhood, that makes me want to go to a happy place.

[Charles Sloan]

about 3-5x a day
about once a day
about once a week
rarely

Just curious

My wife hates when I grab or grope her, but she likes to do it a few times a day.

Go figure.

[lightshineon]

about 3-5x a day
about once a day
about once a week
rarely

Just curious

My wife hates when I grab or grope her, but she likes to do it a few times a day.

Go figure.

 Right (LOL)

[armywifenmom]

Whom would be grabbing and groping whom? My answear, would be only when appropriate. Myself, if my husband did that twenty-four seven, that would get on my nerves. I not saying husband is not ever frisky, and somewhat playful at times, but if everytime I passed him, he grabbed and groped, I might take exception to that. Balance in everything, and make sure4 kiddies do not see, brings back a disturbing memory from childhood, that makes me want to go to a happy place.

Yea, it's pretty much everytime I walk by, or bend over. I love the fact that he still finds me sexy, and still finds me desirous, but like you said, all the time can get annoying, and yes my kids have seen, lol. I used to freak out over them seeing, but i guess a picture of mom and dad being ''frisky'' is better than never seeing mom and dad touch.

[armywifenmom]

about 3-5x a day
about once a day
about once a week
rarely

Just curious

My wife hates when I grab or grope her, but she likes to do it a few times a day.

Go figure.

Hmm, does she do it when you're working on the car, or any other time you are trying to concentrate? lol

[lightshineon]

Whom would be grabbing and groping whom? My answear, would be only when appropriate. Myself, if my husband did that twenty-four seven, that would get on my nerves. I not saying husband is not ever frisky, and somewhat playful at times, but if everytime I passed him, he grabbed and groped, I might take exception to that. Balance in everything, and make sure4 kiddies do not see, brings back a disturbing memory from childhood, that makes me want to go to a happy place.

Yea, it's pretty much everytime I walk by, or bend over. I love the fact that he still finds me sexy, and still finds me desirous, but like you said, all the time can get annoying, and yes my kids have seen, lol. I used to freak out over them seeing, but i guess a picture of mom and dad being ''frisky'' is better than never seeing mom and dad touch.

 That would make me so annoyed, I guess, I am such a prude, look at avatar photo of me, and it tells all (LOL) I guess the good news he hands for you only.

[armywifenmom]

As for me, I pat/grab about once every other day or so, but we hug everyday.

[farouk]

armywifenmom:

Sounds like you guys are affectionate, yes, which is a blessing.

As for me, I pat/grab about once every other day or so, but we hug everyday.

[janine]

Even after almost 30 years hubby hasn't been able to figure out exactly when and where to grab and grope.

I mean, he doesn't do anything inappropriate out in public or anything like that --  but he will walk up behind me in the kitchen, and, apparently overcome with lust because I am cooking supper  , he'll reach around me and... um... fondly fondle.

And he'll do it just when I'm pouring boiling water into the sink, or some similar dangerous move.

When something like that happens, I do not try to control my tongue.  At all.  He knows better.

[dallasapple]

Way more than three to five times a day and it was every time I was within arms reach of him but it didnt even need to be that (me getting near him) it was basically just because I was there.

Tenman said the "more the better" WRONG!

I couldnt even have a "serious" conversation withiout him making a sexual comment .Turning things I said into sexual inuendo..

It beign good for the kids?..How is it good for children to see their father walk up behind her while she is trying talk to them or serve their food on their plates and put his hands unerneath her shirt and starts squesszig her breast and licking her ear?

How is it good for ME to be trying to tell him something and he reaches out and and starts pinching both my nipples and likcing his lips?

SURE it lets you know you "arent just roomates"...but a constant reminder and in front of people is not just irriatating its maddening.(and even not in front of people)

But HEY do not "deprive" anyone.HEY realize how harmful rejection is and if you are married to someone who looks at you as NOTHING BUT a lover realize how you are rejecting THEM as a human being by not accepting every advance.(unless your dying).

Be GRATEFUL that you are afraid to even change clothes in a room by your self or take a bath.Be grateful that someone would prefer to do NOTHING but have sex with you and touch you all day long and do nothing else.

Its  GODLY thing to be married to a person that every time they look at you all they can think of is having sex with you.

The more the better?

Yes ..and no ...because sometimes "less is more".

Love


Dallas

[dallasapple]

QUOTE JANINE:When something like that happens, I do not try to control my tongue.  At all.  He knows END QUOTE

What? YOu mean that YOU are the one in "control" of when and where and how often you are groped? How is that fair?Why do you get to decide ? Isnt that argumentiative nd out of balance since YOU are determining what is enough and what is too much and when ? Sounds like he gets no say so in the matter.

Love

Dallas