I really could use some guidance. My husband has had his fair share of health issues, most recent colon cancer, had surgery and is currently nearing the end of chemo. During all of this he has had 2 reoccurences of a nerve disorder he had once about 14 years ago. Needless to say he is getting angry about all of it, gets discouraged, says things like he's tired of all of it and seems depressed. He just constantly says he gets all the bad stuff (not his words) and he knows he's going to die from cancer and that it will come back. I am having a really hard time not getting scared of all of this he says. I try to be encouraging and happy and he just gets mean at times. We have been married for almost 30 years and I just feel like I'm going to get sick from worrying about him or his attitude. He is not following Christ so that makes it even harder.
Please any advise I feel lost and alone