I don't wanna get divorced...Please help me

[Nadya]

Hi,

I am lost.. My marriage is about to end and I have until the end of the year to save my marriage. I have been crying a lot, not eating and being miserable. My husband is in love with me, he loves me but I dont know what's wrong with me. I feel like I am not in love with him anymore and he realized that he can't be married to me. Instead, he told me that he wants to let me go and find happiness elsewhere.... but I wanna save my marriage, I don't wanna quit.

Today, while I was crying, I got down on my knees and I asked the Lord to please help me and asked him to forgive me..I said I was sorry if I am not the person he wanted me to be..I know that if he can forgive anybody, he can forgive me...I know I have walked away from him but I don't like this feeling and I need the Lord more than never in my life right now.  I just realized that everybody including my so called "friends" had abandonded me in my difficult hours and had let me down but the Lord is the only one that is there to listen to me. I just hope it is not too late for the Lord to make a miracle and not too late for me to go back to his arms.

I am devastated....I don't think God sent me to this world to be miserable...Please pray for me that my marriage works out and that Jesus gives me his love and peace...I dont know what to do...My birthday is next week, I will be 30 and I dont even want to celebrate it...I feel like dying inside and there is nobody out there to give me a hug..

Thanks

Nadya                    

[yesult]

Have you looked into the possibility of seeing a christian marriage counsellor? 'In love' is an emotion, while love is always a choice. They're different. When we make a marriage covenant before God, we commit to loving somebody whether we want to or not for the rest of our lives. However that practially works itself out.
The bible tells us that the only scripturally acceptable reason for divorce and remarriage is sexual sin.

A christian counsellor (or pastor) might be able to help you more with this, because a marriage breakdown can have many, many seperate causes and triggers that need to be addressed and unravelled.

[Elaine]

Hi Nadya,

I just read your post for the 1st time. I'm single and don't come over here  - but have been lately --I haven't always been single so I think I have some experience under  my belt !

I dont know if you're still around or receiving notifications as to responses ---I would be pretty disillusioned with this group -78 people read your post and couldn't find the time, care or the right thing to say to you.   Wonderful, just peachy.

I won't say much bec you may not even get this - but for a start ---I hope things have gotten a little better. I'm so sorry for what you're going through.

Want to let me know what the update is since you last posted? I sure hope you have a solid connection with God  -because this group was worthless to you except for sweety-pie yesult...:)

Hoping things are a little better, write anytime,
Your sis,
:)Elaine

[lightshineon]

 Hi, I am a little confused, is he leaving because he thinks you do not love him?  Show him in many different ways, tell him.just ask for another chance, and  tell him you cried out to Jesus. Tomorrow is a new day, and have hope that the Lord will change things.

[walker starr]

     

                      Please God help this couple in the ways that only YOU know.  This I ask in JESUS precious name. Amen
                                                                                                                                                                                 Walker