What to do when a spouse doesn't want to work toward reconciliation (not even talk) but also doesn't respond to lawyer about starting property settlement process? Which way do they want to go?
Judging from your previous questions, I get the impression that you're *very* uneasy with all the uncertainty in your relationship with your wife (this being only the most recent of several examples). I also get the impression that she is *very* uneasy with your eagerness to get things resolved.
Naturally, I don't know you, so I could easily be off base here, but *most* people who are eager for closure are constantly trying to "test" the other party, effectively saying and doing things to try and "force" the other to "show [her] hand."
I suspect that this is the case with you and your wife: you keep pulling for certainty, while she keeps pulling for un
certainty. A lot of people are hypersensitive to feeling controlled, and from what you've described in previous posts, that's what it sounds like.
I know this probably sounds really weird to you, but please pray about it.