To keep it short, my wife and I have been together for almost 30years, married for 25 and adult children. It was never the love story but we ended up together, which is a whole chapter in its own.
We have been in a crisis and she did at times mention the word separation to which I usually reply with no.
Today we had a talk and she told me (as before already) how bad she feels with me and that I don't bring the best out in her. To which I replied (in frustration) that maybe we should think about separation.
There is a lot more to it but basically, since I brought it up, this seems the way we have to go. I should have been asking as to why she feels that way or how can we change that. This is where I always end up in all our discussions. I am not looking for sympathy here but wisdom in how to deal with it and your prayers. Thanks for letting me open up here.