What do you husbands really want from your woman?
It's very simple and God's word will tell you if you truly desire to know, with a heart to do JUST AS GOD COMMANDS.
Ephesians 5:24-33~"Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
A success for a great marriage is in one word as far as the woman goes~"reverence"
For man toward his wife can also be summed up in one word: LOVE
their wives as their own body. I have been with the same woman since she JUST turned fifteen and I just turned 18. FIFTY short years and it seems as though it started yesterday! We have lived our life together based on those two absolute ingredients for an almost perfect marriage. Nowhere does it say to the woman to love her husband (even though she will if she is loved properly) yet it does command her to submit and reverence her lord.
1st Peter 3:1-6~"Likewise, ye wives, be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives; While they behold your chaste conversation coupled with fear. Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel. But let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands: Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement.
Enough said~remember they want what God put into their nature as a man~reverence
from their wife. EVERYTHING else will fall perfectly into place, trust God's word and see.
Well, praise be to God, who has given to us his word for us to live our life in order to live it in the fullness as he desires us to do. Life is short, and to live in a marriage not based upon the word of God, is to live a miserable life, even though in many cases hidden from others! A great marriage is one of the few things in life that we can enjoy while living in the flesh.