For just a moment..... let's stop and think about this with just plain ole horse sense. Not bible, not christian, just common sense.
This marriage is obviously a mistake. In any other realm of life, what we would do is CORRECT the mistake, and move forward.
It's also obvious that you have no children to be affected by the break-up. The break up, which for you will obviously be a gigantic relief,
and, I'd be willing to bet that it will for your husband, too. I don't think either of your needs are being met by it.
In other words, I think, in this case, that the marriage/divorce is the "gnat" and what it's doing to both of you is the "camel".
How should I know if God is signalling me to move out .Im unable to hear him .
God doesn't work that way, with "signals", "fleeces", etc. He gives us His Word, and His Holy Spirit, and it is for us to choose what we do.
Can u pls clear this to me if God gives second chances for those who wanted to live ?
Yes, not only second, but thirds, fourths, fifths. God is both the God of the married and the God of the divorced, yes, even of the woman at the well who had 5 husbands, and was living with a man who was not her husband, and yes, the God of the single, too.