My adult daughter and her boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year. He's a wonderful Christian young man and I'm very happy for her. Unfortunately, my husband (her stepfather) cannot get over the fact that he's black and has basically disowned my daughter. I have expressed to him that he's being a hypocrite because my daughter, as well as the rest of my family welcomed him with open arms even though he's of a different ethnicity, but he disagrees because as he says, "I'm not black". This is really testing our marriage. My husband thinks that by me accepting my daughter's relationship, I'm going against him. I don't know what to do. I love my husband and my daughter so much and I don't feel like I should have to pick a side.