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Offline kamikaze

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Sensitive to sexual arousal
« on: May 12, 2011, 02:10:59 AM »
I wanted to ask a question of you guys.
I'm 25 and have been masturbating for about 10 years now. In the last few years i have gone through long periods where i haven't masturbated, and ever since i met my current girlfriend a year ago i haven't really masturbated at all.

But, i do notice now that when i watch something even slightly sexual on tv, or when i kiss my girlfriend or we hold hands or do something slightly intimate, i find myself getting aroused a lot easier, and it almost feels like sometimes that i'm getting so aroused so fast that i'm just going to climax pretty fast.

I also notice a lot that after i watch something slightly sexual on tv, or kiss my girlfriend, and i will get aroused a bit by either of those things, i have found a clear kind of liquid on my penis later on. It's not semen. It's just a little bit of clear liquid near the head of my penis.

What is that? Is it normal?
Is it possible and normal that if you haven't masturbated in a while, that things that aren't necessarily super arousing can excite you too much, or excite you more than is normal, because you haven't had any sexual relief in a while?

Thanks guys.

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Re: Sensitive to sexual arousal
« Reply #1 on: May 12, 2011, 01:45:53 PM »
Having fun?

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Re: Sensitive to sexual arousal
« Reply #2 on: May 14, 2011, 10:46:58 AM »
That stuff is normal, its something we produce, lubrication, bit like a bit of oil for the machinery just prior to it being to be called upon to work. Creator God is rather clever eh.

Complete abstinance from sex or masturbation will often be less trouble than hit and miss approach. You need to control what you watch, and sex is for marriage only. DIY stuff is unhelpful to you spiritually. You need to be seeking to harness this area of your life. Do you not think that God has a different purpose for sex than your personal pleasure?

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Re: Sensitive to sexual arousal
« Reply #3 on: May 14, 2011, 10:53:03 AM »
Kamikaze, you first must understand that masturbation is sin.  On two counts: It's lust, and it's selfishness.

You and your girl need to come to an agreement that you will never be alone together.  Find a married couple in your church, to counsel the two of you and hold you accountable.  Otherwise you'll truly regret it later.

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Re: Sensitive to sexual arousal
« Reply #4 on: May 16, 2011, 05:02:54 PM »
Quit making excuses and learn some self control

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Re: Sensitive to sexual arousal
« Reply #5 on: May 20, 2011, 01:38:39 PM »
I’ve never had a clear liquid other than semen come out of my penis when I am aroused. That’s just me though...

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Re: Sensitive to sexual arousal
« Reply #6 on: May 20, 2011, 08:30:01 PM »
DIY?

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Re: Sensitive to sexual arousal
« Reply #7 on: June 20, 2011, 02:37:51 PM »
The clear liquid is just what Nathanael said it is, a pre-lubricant.  Pain the next day in the genital area is called Vasocongestion.  There are several slang names for this condition none of which will I repeat. The cure?  Don't get sexually aroused.

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Re: Sensitive to sexual arousal
« Reply #8 on: November 03, 2011, 10:36:30 AM »
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The cure?  Don't get sexually aroused.
that is like telling someone who has been fasting to not get hungry when they smell food.

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Re: Sensitive to sexual arousal
« Reply #9 on: January 25, 2012, 10:53:15 PM »
I think since you are of age plan on marriage if you wish to be close to your girl friend.abstinance and self control wont work for you always because desires are natural.