Are you beautiful, hot, pretty or cute

[LambofGod]

How do other describe you and how do you describe you self. Does looks matter to you when u are looking for the guy/girl of your dream?

[UtahDad]

Anyone who says that looks don't matter, lies.  Lol.  I'm not saying that anyone is perfect or needs to look that way but there are always things you look for in a guy/girl you want to date.  Does she take care of herself?  Does she seem healthy in body and mind?  Does she appear to be the type of person that would fit with my lifestyle/activities? 

Call me shallow but I do take care of myself, exercise, eat healthy, get out and do things physically and if I am looking at a girl who doesn't look like she hasn't exited her home for the last 4 months and looks like she needs to take a grinder to her finger/toenails, that tells me that she probably isn't a good fit for my lifestyle.  I look at a girl as a future helpmate as the Bible calls it, she could be absolutely gorgeous (by world's definition) but high maintenance and I would avoid her also.

I'm not perfect and I don't expect the girl to be perfect either but she needs to fit with me lifestyle wise.

[wolflet7]

People would probably say I'm cute.  Kind of bad for a guy, but I've only heard that from my mom lol.  I think I'm actually between cute and hot.  I've got some muscle and I've got some looks.  I wouldn't change a thing about myself.  I like myself the way I am.  The way God created me.  Looks don't completely matter for my soul mate, but she has to be at least a little cute.

[lightshineon]

 I do not know, looks fade, and would ( if not married) rather be with an ugly man, than a mean man. If you have not noticed unattractive folk get married too.   

[chosenone]

I do not know, looks fade, and would ( if not married) rather be with an ugly man, than a mean man. If you have not noticed unattractive folk get married too.   

 

Thats true lightshoneon. I actually LOVE it when I see an average or good looking person clearly in love with quite a plain person. it shows me that we are not all shallow.lol
I actually also know that God can change the way we see someone. This has happened to someone who I know well. What I mean is that a person who we didnt see as that attractive can become attractive to us if we allow God to change the way we see them. Isnt God amazing?
The thing is that if it is so important to us that we have a very  attractive spouse, then what will happen when they  age, and get wrinkles and sag and go grey or whatever?Will we leave them for another younger more atractive one?

[HeavensTears]

It is written in Proverbes 31:30 that charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised. The same applies to men, too.

Now, I will admit that looks do matter to me because I seriously do not want someone who looks like Quazi Moto or the Hunchback of Notre Dame with bad breath hugging and kissing on me! He doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous, but he can't be ugly either. Besides, if we wanted to have babies, I want our children to be cute.


Don't judge me, ya'll. Just keeping it real, that's all. 

[UtahDad]

It is written in Proverbes 31:30 that charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised. The same applies to men, too.

Now, I will admit that looks do matter to me because I seriously do not want someone who looks like Quazi Moto or the Hunchback of Notre Dame with bad breath hugging and kissing on me! He doesn't have to be drop dead gorgeous, but he can't be ugly either. Besides, if we wanted to have babies, I want our children to be cute.


Don't judge me, ya'll. Just keeping it real, that's all. 

Glad someone posted something along the same lines as I did, I was dreading getting beat up on the boards again.  Lol

[chosenone]

Its obvious that we will not all be marrying very atractive men or women as there arent that many around, but that person obviously cant be ugly to us as we DO have to live with them and sleep with them etc. If we are only seeking a VERY attractive person then we will probably be very dissappointed, unless you are a very rich man or a very attractive woman yourself. However in my experience many people in that category are often arrogant and self centred anyway.

[Hehealedme]

I see myself as average. Not beautiful and not ugly eighter...just plain average...

One's opinion of someone may not necessarily reflect the same as others...

[JohnnO]

I see myself as phenomenally good looking.

Others see me as Quasimodo.  (They're all wrong however).

Each person is beautiful to someone. The person I see as drop dead gorgeous may be seen as just dropped dead by others.  Every woman is attractive to some man. And every man is attractive to some woman.

That said, looks are very important to me. My late wife was stunning in my eyes and since I will be spending the rest of my life with my next wife I need her to be stunning to me also.

[lightshineon]

 Elaine, I totally get the smell good part that is not superfical, but the looks thing is so superfical. I have never been into hot guy's and plenty liked me in college. I always wanted to be the prettiest in a relationship ( just joking). I take a super confident, Christian man, who has chrisma about him,  than some pretty boy, whois just fluff.Robert Duvall is a perfect example of what I am saying. great smile, charming smile. He is not a classic type of handsome, but his smile is so sexy. His teeth are not even perfect, but what a smile. That would attract me. Dustin Hoffman (sp) goodlooking, though short, so am I. I am not looking, I love my handsome hubby, a complete package, just saying, look deeper than striking handsome, or beautiful.

[JohnDB]

So long as the other person isn't wider than they are tall...

So long as they do know what personal hygene means.

So long as you can see their face and not some kind of detractor *talking out of the side of their mouth...slobbering...pro fanity...gum chewing...too much makeup....and etc etc.

And have a pleasant personality...

You will meet someone...so long as you get out of the house and really enjoy life...otherwise your hopes will center around the pizza delivery man.

[dallasapple]

Even though its a "miralcle" according to some that my husband who still wants to have sex with me every chance he gets and make rude comments..

I would say...THAT  I ignored the 4o lbs he has gained.(Im the same size as when we married 20 years ago))..I would IGNORE he lost two teeth) They are  in the back..

I would say its a MIRACLE he is still attracted to me.DESPITE the fact I have changed VERY little in 20 years.I should DROP on my hands and knees and THANK God that although I look maybe older in the most minor ways he STILL focuses on me.

I will say its a GOOD thing for HIM that I loved HIM for a human being..Not some sex flesh.

But hey IM "appaulling"  and ya'll can all feel sorry for my husband.And I can DROP on my kness and pray thanks to God that my husband is STILL attracted to my old wrinkled fat self at 40.Even though Im not.Im not wrinkled and Im not old.

Bit its GOOD to some that he is a HERO ..for still be willing to have sex with me.In fact its a "miracle"

In fact Im the one that has to have adjusted to HUGE adjustemtns in his appearence.

Good bye.

Love

Dallas

[JohnDB]

Some people just don't know how good they got it...

and want to criticize the butter that is on their bread.

but keep it up and you just might get your wish...whether you want it or not.

[dallasapple]

Some people just don't know how good they got it...

and want to criticize the butter that is on their bread.

but keep it up and you just might get your wish...whether you want it or not.

Some people just KNOW when they are being disrespected and its not "really good " how good they "got it".

And trust me I want "my wish".

Love

Dallas