Everyone deserves to be with someone they want to be with.
Speaking as a man and what I would say to other guys, it's a guy's responsibility to find a woman that's the best possible choice for him and not what everyone says is best, not what he thinks they think is best. This one time, when he's choosing his future wife, he needs to focus exclusively on his own needs and who will make him happy.
Trust me, nobody else is worrying about your needs or wants. So you need to be concerned about your own. And this is the last chance you'll get. Once you're married, you are in it for the long haul and you will have to die to self for her and your children if you have them.
Forget about what's politically correct, be selfish. It is the best thing you can do for yourself, and for your future wife. If you choose her based on what you need and want it will only make it better years down the road when what you need or want is not first.
And along with who you are physically attracted to, look for wifely qualities, not only girlfriend qualities. You find a woman you are physically attracted to, who is also beautiful to you on the inside and she has, wifely qualities, you have hit a home run.
