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Forbidden love....
« on: December 28, 2010, 11:14:47 AM »
So here is the problem:

I met this really awesome guy on the 21 at my friends birthday party.   We went bowling and only seven of us showed up, including this really awesome guy....He has an amazing sense of humor; He is sensitive and good looking.....I have what some might call a good judge of character, and he is one of the nicest guys I have ever met.....And get this, he actually wants to get to know me better! 
The Catch?  He is a bisexual wiccan agnostic.... meaning he believes in magik but does not believe that there is a higher being controlling that magikal stuff...
And me, I guess I need a little christian advice considering Im 17 and have never had a boyfriend before...
Thanks  ::lookaround::
God bless

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Re: Forbidden love....
« Reply #1 on: December 28, 2010, 11:27:17 AM »
He would be one definitely NOT to date. Just because someone speaks kindly doesn't mean that their heart is in those words. It usually means that speaking kindly is a focus of theirs. Sad but true.

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Re: Forbidden love....
« Reply #2 on: December 28, 2010, 01:37:46 PM »
He likes to have sex with everyone and can't decide whether or not there is a God but in the meantime is a practicing Wiccan?

Interesting.

Run.  The other way.

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Re: Forbidden love....
« Reply #3 on: December 28, 2010, 02:33:08 PM »
i agree run, run. the more you hang with him, the more you like him, the harder it is to let go once the reality of his beliefs make you choose to let him go.

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Re: Forbidden love....
« Reply #4 on: December 30, 2010, 11:05:51 AM »
Are there any verses in the Bible that specifically warn against this kind of thing?

Thanks 

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« Reply #5 on: December 30, 2010, 11:21:59 AM »
Yeah. Remember Sampson?

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« Reply #6 on: December 30, 2010, 02:48:47 PM »
So here is the problem:

I met this really awesome guy on the 21 at my friends birthday party.   We went bowling and only seven of us showed up, including this really awesome guy....He has an amazing sense of humor; He is sensitive and good looking.....I have what some might call a good judge of character, and he is one of the nicest guys I have ever met.....And get this, he actually wants to get to know me better! 
The Catch?  He is a bisexual wiccan agnostic.... meaning he believes in magik but does not believe that there is a higher being controlling that magikal stuff...
And me, I guess I need a little christian advice considering Im 17 and have never had a boyfriend before...
Thanks  ::lookaround::
God bless

Hey young one,

The immediate gratification is not worth the pain later on. Some stuff can mess you up for the rest of your life. I hope you make the right decision. I'm feeling that you probably knew the right answer, but since you feel the need to ask, chances are you are already falling for the bait. It's a tough painful lesson to learn. Get ready for some hard knocks.

with love,
S.

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Re: Forbidden love....
« Reply #7 on: January 09, 2011, 08:47:36 PM »
Are there any verses in the Bible that specifically warn against this kind of thing?

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A whole bunch of them...look under witchcraft for the wiccan stuff, abomination for the bisexual stuff...and the unequally yoked for all of it.


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Re: Forbidden love....
« Reply #8 on: January 17, 2011, 11:42:25 PM »
Wiccans are all just losers looking for attention. Maybe if you go out with him he'll have the self-confidence to stop being such a nerdy harry-potter thumper.

I say date him. It's like that seinfeld episode. Who cares if he's not a christian, he's the one going to hell for it; not you.

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« Reply #9 on: January 18, 2011, 11:56:18 AM »
Wiccans are all just losers looking for attention. Maybe if you go out with him he'll have the self-confidence to stop being such a nerdy harry-potter thumper.

I say date him. It's like that seinfeld episode. Who cares if he's not a christian, he's the one going to hell for it; not you.

If you seriously love Jesus you may want to back up and take a look at what you just posted as it is not in anyway something Jesus would ever say or condone saying.

Sheeesh!

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« Reply #10 on: January 18, 2011, 12:25:32 PM »
Not necessarily.  Some of us do not come from Christian homes and, parents are not perfect.

I will say that there seems to be a lot less effective parenting nowadays though.

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« Reply #11 on: January 18, 2011, 12:51:51 PM »
I disagree :)  I regret the many years of not knowing Jesus and would rather look back on a loving God filled early childhood life and especially teen years than the Godless pit I was raised in.

I am thankful I was never boy crazy or a druggie as it saved me a lot of trouble.  That is from God though and had nothing to do with my parents as it was definitely not the same with my sister or brother.

I am not saying good parenting doesn't exist.  I just have no faith where there is no faith in God.

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« Reply #12 on: January 18, 2011, 01:44:27 PM »
I'm 39 and know exactly what I am saying.  I am also watching my un-saved mother roil around making the same Godless mistakes over and over.

We can agree to disagree.  I think the world is wrong because it is a sin filled fallen world, not because of parental correction ;)

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Re: Forbidden love....
« Reply #13 on: January 18, 2011, 03:25:23 PM »
We all need(ed) correction from our parents.  It's kind of a non-sequitur here, though.

As for the boy, you have a radically different paradigm than he does.  If you choose the relationship, it will be very difficult.

Also, there's no such thing as a Wiccan agnostic.  Something stinks, there.

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Re: Forbidden love....
« Reply #14 on: January 18, 2011, 04:18:30 PM »
So here is the problem:

I met this really awesome guy on the 21 at my friends birthday party.   We went bowling and only seven of us showed up, including this really awesome guy....He has an amazing sense of humor; He is sensitive and good looking.....I have what some might call a good judge of character, and he is one of the nicest guys I have ever met.....And get this, he actually wants to get to know me better! 
The Catch?  He is a bisexual wiccan agnostic.... meaning he believes in magik but does not believe that there is a higher being controlling that magikal stuff...
And me, I guess I need a little christian advice considering Im 17 and have never had a boyfriend before...
Thanks  ::lookaround::
God bless

Sometimes the Horns and pointy Tail are Spiritually visible sometimes they are tangible to all: but the most dangerous are those with the ability to make all that is Evil seem Comely even desirable this is where it all started!!!!!.