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Offline Britt333

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Re: Forbidden love....
« Reply #15 on: January 18, 2011, 07:15:20 PM »
Thanks for the advice...
My parents are not christian, I really have no christian guidance when it comes to this stuff, and quite frankly its rather depressing...I know I am a teenager, and that everyone goes through this 'I'm right your wrong' stage of their lives...But its really, really, really horrible that I can't think logically enough to make myself stop liking him.........I know that Im probably going to end up being hurt, but i don't know how to stop feeling the way I do...bleck...I hate knowing that one person can make me stop thinking rationally...
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« Reply #16 on: January 19, 2011, 10:17:54 AM »
Ah...do you have a pastor or his wife or another gal at your church or an older friend in youth group to talk to?

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Re: Forbidden love....
« Reply #17 on: January 19, 2011, 04:19:31 PM »
Ah...do you have a pastor or his wife or another gal at your church or an older friend in youth group to talk to?

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Nope =P  I don't go to church because of my parents.... and at my youth group there are a couple girls but they are a few years younger than me... kinda sucks, lol I have wondered these things before =)  thanks for asking...

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« Reply #18 on: January 20, 2011, 01:07:30 AM »
You need someone you can talk to about this... and the many other things that go on at your age.  Can you talk to your youth leader?  Even if male or female, it's good to have someone you can confide in and (here's the touchy part!!) hold you accountable.  I have an awesome, mature Christian friend that I really depend on, she even reads this board LOL!

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« Reply #19 on: January 20, 2011, 03:55:18 PM »
You need someone you can talk to about this... and the many other things that go on at your age.  Can you talk to your youth leader?  Even if male or female, it's good to have someone you can confide in and (here's the touchy part!!) hold you accountable.  I have an awesome, mature Christian friend that I really depend on, she even reads this board LOL!

I'll have to see what i can do...lol thats awesome ^_^

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« Reply #20 on: January 21, 2011, 11:06:03 AM »
God bless Britt!

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« Reply #21 on: January 25, 2011, 03:20:40 PM »
God bless Britt!

Thank you!!  You too!  ::smile::

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« Reply #22 on: January 29, 2011, 03:32:31 AM »
In all likelihood he's asking his friends the same type of question:  "I met this great girl at the bowling alley and she's smart, good-looking, funny, etc.,  problem is she's a Christian."

My advice would be that if you have a strong faith and aren't put off too much by his moral choices, then why not date him?  Wiccans don't generally sacrifice their virgins on the first date anyway.  Do be careful about the bisexuality thing.  It's probably just an adolescent affectation, but an active bisexual is a double risk for STD's.

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« Reply #23 on: January 29, 2011, 12:13:52 PM »
Years ago, my brother had a friend. That friend loved to play with dangerous stuff. He was like a daredevil and feared nothing regardless of the warnings from his parents and everyone else that knew his frightning behaviors.

One time a bunch of kids were playing in a field. That boy climbed a tree and fell down from it. The back of his lower leg got caught in a broken branch of the tree. It tore apart from his leg. The doctors couldn't attach it back to his leg as it was too damaged. Naturally, he lost that part of his leg.

Another time, he went to his grandparents' house for the weekend. While playing in a shed he found an old oil lamp. He played with fire and burned to death. The little boy was only ten years old...

Soulsearcher...the point I am trying to make is this...why take unneccessary risks?...why play with fire when you could easily get burned or worse...one may have a very strong faith but still fall into temptation...having faith doesn't automatically protect you from harm if you take the wrong decisions...

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« Reply #24 on: January 29, 2011, 01:20:39 PM »
If you can fall for him, it can be because whatever he shows you is your weakness.

What shows is not what love is really about.

Plenty of older women fall for guys they don't belong with, because they want something that liers and abusers etc. know how to imitate.

"'Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.'" (John 7:24)


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Re: Forbidden love....
« Reply #25 on: February 11, 2011, 10:49:00 AM »
Hey
Thanks everyone for the advice and support ...and if it helps any we split yesterday...the funny thing was that he didn't want to date a christian....Im not too depressed though, its actually kind of nice knowing that I don't have to worry about what he thinks of the whole christian thing lol....
actually its a huge relief   ::noworries::
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« Reply #26 on: February 12, 2011, 09:19:04 AM »
Ah the freeing feeling!  Whenever I have broken up with someone I always feel footloose and fancy free.  Go treat yourself to a three scoop sundae, a mango slushie and whatever else floats your boat!

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Re: Forbidden love....
« Reply #27 on: February 13, 2011, 10:04:15 PM »
I'm going to join with those who say stay far away. It is hard for me to imagine someone I'd rather have my daughter date less than the guy you described. I think wiccanism, or whaterver it is called is at the very least a gateway to Satanism if not outright Satanism. And God says he detests homosexuality. Stay away. I'd want my daughter to date a drummer in a heavy metal band before that guy.

-Father of 13 year old who won't be dating until she's 25