Best Advice for a Single:
Date! Only When You Actually DON'T Need It
This is the most important rule before you start searching for your soul mate.
That makes as much sense as saying to eat only when you are not hungry.
If you are coming off of a 10 day fast when are you supposed to get "not hungry" enough to eat?
God was moved to make woman when he noticed that it was not good for the Man to be alone.
For some people i completely agree that its best not too date till you don't need it.For me that's the case and heres why.
You need to ask yourself what do you value the most in life. For me it was the desire to be married over God.Looking back i am glad God kept a woman out of my life,because i wasn't ready yet.Had he not i would have focused more on the woman and not of God.
If God isn't more important too you than your desire to find a husband or wife you need to rethink your priorities.
Luke 9:61 And another also said, Lord, I will follow thee; but let me first go bid them farewell, which are at home at my house.
62 And Jesus said unto him, No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.
33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife.
34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
36 But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry.
The point isn't that marriage is wrong,but if you are not right in your walk with God you do a disservice to yourself and your future mate.