God does NOT love you (If you are single) Read Gen 2:18

[Mike619]

Genesis 2:18: "It is not good for man to be alone - I will create a helper suitable for Him".

Funny how God would say such a bold statement, yet prove the exact opposite with His actions (Or lack there of).

Hi, I'm Mike. 21 years old, and been a born again Christian since I was in the 1st grade. Between then and now, I have felt the pressense of God enough to know without a doubt He is real, I have seen miracles and Gods power displayed enough times to know that there is nothing beyond His power, and I have led more people to salvation than most people do in their ENTIRE lives. Yet I only lack one thing - the love and comfort of another human. If you are like me, and have cried out passionately to God for that special person - a soul mate, yet are still single and consumed by loneliness, I've got some things to share with you... What God is doing to you is nothing short of neglect.
If God really loved me, then my deepest feelings, my deepest desires, they would all matter to Him. Same for you. It's funny how He can create this whole Earth, moon, stars and universe, yet He can't even do something as simple as help someone like me find a life partner or a relationship.

I have come to expose Gods deception. His love He claims for us is a lie. He died only to enslave us, because we were no use to Him as hells corspes. Think I'm wrong? Just look at how He mistreats people like me and others who are single? Can you believe there are people in there 30's and 40's who have never been with someone? What foul misery! In my life I have seen and tasted light and dark for what they truely are - just two factions with too much power, squabbling over hearts and religion while the rest of us burn. God and Satan are like dumb and dumber. Theres the God who doesn't know how to use His powers or back up His words with actions, and then theres the Devil who was dumb enough to betray Him and get kicked outta heaven.

Where was God when I needed a hand to hold? Where was God when I needed SOMEONE to hold? Where was God when I was freezing outside and had no one to cuddle and stay warm with? God is a real being but as long as He is not there for me in any physical or emotional way, He might as well be just an illusion. Until we actually reach that place in Heaven where we can actually dive into Gods arms, we cannot touch our God. The least He could do is give us something to safice, someone to hold for the time we're waiting, to make it a little bit less miserable? I firmly believe the gift of love and marriage to be the most beautiful and greatest thing next to God. Yet I am being denied. I have asked, knocked, yet recieved not. Now my loneliness has caused my heart to become calloused and hardened. Why should I be alone? As far as I'm concerned, until God actually comes out of hiding and cowardice and actually backs up His words with actions, then His love for us is a lie.

And I dare someone to try and prove me wrong. Just know that I've got an ARSENAL of scriptures to back myself up, and chances are you'll only have empty words with nothing to back them up.

[Hehealedme]

You are obviously a very angry individual, Mike...how sad...please don't let the devil manipulate and deceive you...I will pray for you tonight...

[kensington]

Mike you are talking like a spoiled brat...  words to back that up?

Your own... in your post.  I have 7 kids...  and 4 of them older than you...  I'd tell them to knock off the self pity and do something with themselves... go to college...  get a hobby...  do some charity and stop thinking only of themselves.

[Mike619]

You are obviously a very angry individual, Mike...how sad...please don't let the devil manipulate and deceive you...I will pray for you tonight...

I wouldn't be so angry if God actually cared and gave me someone to love and center my life around. I mean, who the heck WANTS to be lonely?

Mike you are talking like a spoiled brat...  words to back that up? Your own... in your post.  I have 7 kids...  and 4 of them older than you...  I'd tell them to knock off the self pity and do something with themselves... go to college...  get a hobby...  do some charity and stop thinking only of themselves.

You are a fool. You're saying that I am a spoiled brat for suffering. For all you know I HAVE done SEVERAL things with myself and my life, and I'm sick of doing them BY MYSELF. Tired of feeling like an ox hauling a weighty wagon, without that second ox by my side. It'd be a LITTLE nice to have someone to share my life with.

[Hehealedme]

Very demanding, aren't we Mike...no wonder you are still alone...maybe you have a few things to learn about your attitude before a woman will want to marry you!...think about that!...

[Mike619]

Very demanding, aren't we Mike...no wonder you are still alone...think about that!...

Maybe I just got tired of Gods pathetic little silent treatment mind game bs. I've waited a long time already. Now if you mean to say I'd be demanding towards "her", I wouldn't. To be honest, it's not entirely for me. I'm actually kind of upset because I have no one to center my life around. I go through all the hell to pay the bills and put the food on the table, and I'd kinda like to be able to do that for her, and my future kids. Without that I feel like my life is meaningless and incomplete.

[kensington]

You are obviously a very angry individual, Mike...how sad...please don't let the devil manipulate and deceive you...I will pray for you tonight...

I wouldn't be so angry if God actually cared and gave me someone to love and center my life around. I mean, who the heck WANTS to be lonely?

Mike you are talking like a spoiled brat...  words to back that up? Your own... in your post.  I have 7 kids...  and 4 of them older than you...  I'd tell them to knock off the self pity and do something with themselves... go to college...  get a hobby...  do some charity and stop thinking only of themselves.

You are a fool. You're saying that I am a spoiled brat for suffering. For all you know I HAVE done SEVERAL things with myself and my life, and I'm sick of doing them BY MYSELF. Tired of feeling like an ox hauling a weighty wagon, without that second ox by my side. It'd be a LITTLE nice to have someone to share my life with.

Ahh... well ... now there in lies the problem...  You don't understand the whole Yoke principle.  Two Ox should not be yoked together... as the Ox will plow in circles.... so they would yoke an Ox with a mule because the mule will be stubborn and go straight... thus the two yoked together can plow a square field, with straight lines and corners.

 And purpose for the yoking of them is not for pulling the weighty wagon... it is for plowing the field for harvest.  You need to be more worried about the harvest than what is in your wagon.  You are 21...  been saved since you were 3.  Jesus was 33 before He actually suffered loneliness and rejection.  Have you yet suffered what He endured unto death?

If you want to serve God, then serve Him.  If not... then quit.  Have you survived Cancer?  Have you fought in a War?  What have you yet to sacrifice for someone else?  

I won't sit here and beg you to Love God or serve him.   If you don't want to... quit.  

[chosenone]

Mike you are barely an adult, You are only 21 years old. You talk as if you are 50 and still single.
My son is 31 and he met the girl that he wants to marry last year when he was 30. My older daughter is nearly 29 and is still waiting for her man. Hardly anyone has met that special someone at your age.
yes it is normal to want someone special in your life, but to get angry and bitter at God for not having met that special someone at 21 is very extreme.

Live your life, get involved in your church. My daughter went to uni at 26 to do a degree. She cant find a part time job so she is volunteering in a charity shop for a children's hospice. She is getting involved in the children's work at her church. She went to Africa this summer to help at a children's orphanage there.She bought herself a guitar and is learning to play it herself.
My son helps at a youth club. he is going to run a  cell group every week for teenagers. he is also going to teach the 11-14 years olds on a sunday morning.. he went to South Africa this summer as a part of a mission trip. He told the kids there about Jesus. The world is your oyster.
Get involved in a young peoples group at church.Make friends, get to know many others of your age. do stuff together.

maybe God is waiting for you to mature a bit before he brings that special girl into your life. Throw yourself into things so that you dont have time to get bitter about it. You wont attract a girl the way you are, but you will if you are friendly and involved and doing stuff. 

My guess is that you are maybe from  an unloving family and are looking for a girl to fill that gap. Well I have news for you, she wont. Only God can fill that gap for love that you are wanting. No one person can do that.You need to be free of this anger and bitterness before you will be ready for a healthy relationship anyway.

[yesult]

I second the spoiled brat comments.

Apart from that, read Job.

[Mike619]

Ahh... well ... now there in lies the problem...  You don't understand the whole Yoke principle.  Two Ox should not be yoked together... as the Ox will plow in circles.... so they would yoke an Ox with a mule because the mule will be stubborn and go straight... thus the two yoked together can plow a square field, with straight lines and corners.

You're missing the point. The point is I'm lonely and don't want to be lonely anymore.

And purpose for the yoking of them is not for pulling the weighty wagon... it is for plowing the field for harvest.  You need to be more worried about the harvest than what is in your wagon. 

I don't care about the harvest. I care about my fulfillment and hers, whoever she is. The rest of the world can burn for all I care. If I had this person I would be happy, and therefore I'd have strength to harvest.

You are 21...  been saved since you were 3.  Jesus was 33 before He actually suffered loneliness and rejection.   
Have you yet suffered what He endured unto death?

If you want to serve God, then serve Him.  If not... then quit.

I never quit on God. He quit on me, even when I still tried to serve Him.

Have you survived Cancer?  Have you fought in a War? 

Uhhh, what the heck do these have to do with getting a babe?

Mike you are barely an adult, You are only 21 years old. You talk as if you are 50 and still single.

Uhh excuse me, but I have waited a long time. A lot longer than I've wanted to wait. I hit puberty when I was friggen 10, alright? I think I've waited long enough. Why should I tollerate this crap?

My son is 31 and he met the girl that he wants to marry last year when he was 30. My older daughter is nearly 29 and is still waiting for her man. Hardly anyone has met that special someone at your age.

Yeah cause God doesn't love them enough to give them what they need sooner. If I have to wait til I'm 25+ then God can just put up with me sleeping around. And I'll have my payback, when I start a church burning crusade, lead other people away from believing in Him.

yes it is normal to want someone special in your life, but to get angry and bitter at God for not having met that special someone at 21 is very extreme.

So you're saying I should be happy that I am miserable? Are you stupid?

Live your life, get involved in your church. My daughter went to uni at 26 to do a degree. She cant find a part time job so she is volunteering in a charity shop for a children's hospice. She is getting involved in the children's work at her church. She went to Africa this summer to help at a children's orphanage there.She bought herself a guitar and is learning to play it herself.
My son helps at a youth club. he is going to run a  cell group every week for teenagers. he is also going to teach the 11-14 years olds on a sunday morning.. he went to South Africa this summer as a part of a mission trip. He told the kids there about Jesus. The world is your oyster.
Get involved in a young peoples group at church.Make friends, get to know many others of your age. do stuff together.

I do go out and do church related stuff. All of the girls I ever meet are either too young, already taken, and the rare few that pretend to like me just end up leading me on then drop me off of a dang cliff.

Throw yourself into things so that you dont have time to get bitter about it. You wont attract a girl the way you are, but you will if you are friendly and involved and doing stuff. 

Why distract myself? Thats like being on a sinking boat throwing some of the water out, ignoring the very hole that is FILLING it with water in the first place! I want solutions, not distractions.

My guess is that you are maybe from  an unloving family and are looking for a girl to fill that gap. Well I have news for you, she wont.Only God can fill that gap for love that you are wanting. No one person can do that.

If that were true I could hold Him and touch Him right now. You cannot cuddle with God, therefore He cannot fill this hole. And no offense, but girls are pretty, God is not.

You need to be free of this anger and bitterness before you will be ready for a healthy relationship anyway.

Indeed, but also realzie if I had her, I would have the comfort I need to not be lonely anymore, which would kill the anger at its source.

[chosenone]

Wow you have PROBLEMS. YOU are immature, angry, bitter, resentful and totally selfish.
So you think that if God doesn't find you a girlfriend NOW you have the excuse to sleep around? Well you don't. The only person who you will hurt will be yourself. Do you think He is scared at your threats? Well He isn't believe me.  You are only 21 that is nothing.You also sound extremely spoilt, demanding and manipulative, more like a 5 year old than a 21 year old..Do you really think that a good father gives his children EVERYTHING that they ask for?Of course he doesnt We have all asked for things that we didnt get. So what.

You don't go to church, you care nothing about anyone but yourself,you cant be bothered about doing anything for anyone and then you wonder why no girl is interested?. Listen to this. No girl will be interested in you the way you are.Believe me, they will run a  mile.

 you feel you are entitled to whatever you demand, and you hate God and blame him wrongly for your unhappiness. HE is not to blame and nothing will EVER change until your attitude does.You need to let go of this bitterness and anger and selfishness and allow God to work in you. . The longer you stay like this the more you will get resentful and the more it will eat you up and eventually destroy you.

Goodness me, do you really think you are the only one who has been through stuff? People here including myself have been through real life trauma that you couldn't even imagine. God is NOT responsible for these things, He is there to help. Do you think you are the only one who has been rejected by a girlfriend/boyfriend? Goodness there are many of us here whose marriages have been destroyed after many many years, That is rejection.

You need to take a long hard look at yourself and get help to sort this out. You don't want to turn into a lonely bitter old man do you?

I really hope that you don't treat those you meet like you have treated people here. If you do then no wonder you are lonely. People DO NOT want to be around bitter angry and resentful people. You will drive people away.

[kensington]

I think I've waited long enough. Why should I tollerate this crap?

I don't think you should...  Go on up there to Heaven and take God's throne from Him and show Him who is boss dagnabbit!   

[fish153]

Mike619---

Have you ever heard a child asking their Mom or Dad for something that they were not ready for yet?  Sure--the kid thinks it's time---he's ready for it---confident it is best for him.  But his parents KNOW BETTER.  So they say "no". They love the child and want what is BEST FOR HIM.  His impatience is real--he feels he's being cheated, and complains loudly that his parents are unfair, etc.  And his complaints are real and heart-felt.  To him his parents are being harsh and unloving.  But it is not the case.  They truly love him and want only what will result in the absolute best  for him.

And God treats us the same way. We WANT what WE WANT and complain when we don't get it.  We can't understand when God seems to WITHOLD what we think is good from us.  But we need to remember that God has His own timing---he alone KNOWS when you are ready---and WILL ANSWER your prayer Mike. He REALLY WILL----and you will be so grateful you waited for His answer, and did not do something stupid in your impatience.  I myself can testify to how bad an impatient decision can be!   Wait for the Lord Mike----He definitely WILL bring what is best into your life.  You are young and impatient---most young people are.  But the Lord truly is good, and He will come through for you.  He is the GOOD SHEPHERD.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek His will in all you do, and He will show you which path to take". (Prove. 3:5,6 NLT)

We think we have it ALL FIGURED OUT-----we KNOW what's best for us---LOL---we want to depend on our own understanding----but God says-----

"Trust me!  Seek My will. I'll show you the right path to walk---and one day, as you walk that path your help-mate will appear----and you will be so glad you waited!!"

God loves you Mike!!  

[Wycliffes_Shillelagh]

When you don't "need" someone anymore, then you will be ready to have someone.

In the meantime, why don't you try to become the person that the woman you would want, would want to be with.

[Wycliffes_Shillelagh]

I think I've waited long enough. Why should I tollerate this crap?

I don't think you should...  Go on up there to Heaven and take God's throne from Him and show Him who is boss dagnabbit!   

Lol.  That wasn't very sensitive, but it's about right.  Sounds a lot like the book of Job to me.