God does NOT love you (If you are single) Read Gen 2:18

[bemark]

You are so nice...  Peace.

God always looks towards us for good and not for evil    Until we die there is a plan    2 off them


call down the blueprint of heaven     as it is in heaven

I will call forth that plan , the  plan of hope,  the plan of salvation .  The plan of victory

why he died     so we can be free


Peace    Ha Ha Ha   we win

[chosenone]

Quote from MIke
Gods timing sucks. If it were anything perfect He would have given this to me long ago and I would also be ready for it. Instead He fails to meet that perfection. So His timing is not perfect like the Word says. It's written in Psalms 37-3 "Delight yourself in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart."

My desire is for this girl, for all if it to be awesome, and I have waited a long time already so I'd like it by like the end of this year. Sick of seeing everyone else having their relationships, while I'm still waiting to have my very first.

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But you arent delighting yourself in The Lord, you are blaming Him you are attacking Him, you are blaspheming Him, so that verse doesnt actually apply to you.
Also you are not only blaming Him for not having a girlfriend, but you are now blaming him for you not being READY to have a girlfriend. You need to start taking responsibility for yourself and your actions and your thinking. Believe me, NOTHING will change until you do.
 
Bemark, I dont think his problem is lack of Christian girls, after all there are millions of Christian girls in the uSA, and more men that women in the church. I think it is his attitude and his antagonism towards others and God,and his selfishness. This isnt going to change with finding a girl wherever she may be from.

[walker starr]

         Pray for him. Pray that he learn to love GOD,then Learn to love himself.  Then he'll be ready.  He doesn't
         get because he isn't ready to receive.

[Angelos]

I think "Mike" is a troll.

[zotah]

It's always better to wait and learn first who your right soul mate is. Your headed for marriage right down the fast track and headed for divorce even faster. Take it from experience, your perfect for the statistic of divorce.

1. Is it better to take your time a wait for God to give you the right person (Even if that means waiting and looking for the next 5 or more years. Or

2. Is it better to find someone now get married now and have get divorced in 5 years. Be alone and have a Hugh child support payment each month. Then see if your unhappy and alone.

Which 2 choices to you prefer.

After 10 years from now you might look back and see the wisdom in this.

Why not expose yourself to more single groups. Go to more then 1 church, Get involved in more activities. Get yourself so busy in God's work that the girls start wanting you. Make yourself hard to get and they'll really see them go crazy over you.

Try pulling back and see what happens and give God a chance, You might find that your perfect soul mate is right around the corner but she's not ready yet.

He might be getting her prepared right now and you don't even know it.

You'll see, hang in there. God has a great gift for you.

[Wycliffes_Shillelagh]

You know, to be honest I actually kinda of have a thing for Philipino girls. They're actually my favorite. But I really don't have the money to afford a trip like that, nor do I know of any churchs having missions to that area.

Really?  I've been on-again-off-again with a Filipina for a while.  Nice girl.  Nice country.  Conservative culture.  Mostly Catholic though.

[OldDad]

and you might have to move  and try abroad    My brother went to America 2 times to get a wife    but ended up with a good old Kiwi girl back in New Zealand

Then there are many Philippino women etc who might be intrested    and that is not a joke

I have been over there on a mission trip       Maybe that is where your future wife might be    on the mission field

who knows     I have a friend who is in the same boat and NZ is so small

You know, to be honest I actually kinda of have a thing for Philipino girls. They're actually my favorite. But I really don't have the money to afford a trip like that, nor do I know of any churchs having missions to that area.

I can't believe how many got sucked into the troll vortex...

[Mike619]

To be honest bemark... I would not wish this guy on my worst enemy.  Can you imagine what will happen the first time she (a wife) lets him down or disappoints him?  What if she is sick one day and doesn't want sex?  Or his dinner is not on the table at EXACTLY 5:00? 

Maybe God has not sent him a wife, because he is not husband material.  He wants to own something and he wants to own it NOW!

On the contrary, her feelings would matter greatly to me. My feelings of grief are only towards God, because unlike a wife, He IS able to do ANYTHING, without breaking a sweat, yet He continues to leave me drying up my in lonely depression. I would not act this same way towards my girl. In fact I want her to be more important than me. It's not the same with God because He's never there to comfort me, when He's supposed to be more capable than a wife.

[shygirl]

 ::smile::It doesn't mean that cause we didn't get what we want on the certain time we want em, that God forgotten us... Maybe He thinks that the time isn't right yet..? Or maybe, we need to do something with ourselves first, have you tried thinking 'bout your past relationships? You're just 21, dont be in a hurry?

[Mike619]

I think "Mike" is a troll.

No.
If I were trolling, trust me, you would know it. And I would of been long banned by now.

I am here to seek out an answer to my complicated problem. But hurting people hurt people, and that is part what I deal with in my situation. A troll on the other hand, simply comes to attack for amusement of peoples reactions, and that is not why I am here.

It's always better to wait and learn first who your right soul mate is. Your headed for marriage right down the fast track and headed for divorce even faster. Take it from experience, your perfect for the statistic of divorce.

1. Is it better to take your time a wait for God to give you the right person (Even if that means waiting and looking for the next 5 or more years.

What makes you think I want to wait that long? Do you even realize how terrible that feels?

2. Is it better to find someone now get married now and have get divorced in 5 years. Be alone and have a Hugh child support payment each month. Then see if your unhappy and alone.

That's why I want God to bring me the right person. If it is the right person, God will be blessing it and it will work out.

After 10 years from now you might look back and see the wisdom in this.

Maybe you can go without for that long, but that's simply too much for me.

Try pulling back and see what happens and give God a chance, You might find that your perfect soul mate is right around the corner but she's not ready yet.

I've tried giving God a chance (And by that I mean a real chance), giving Him time and dedication. He did nothing with that. I was still left waiting just as lonely, even though I was trying to ignore it and let Him handle it. After waiting for such a long time trying to trust Him for the best, I eventually could not hold in the pain anymore and I fell apart. It is no different waiting while acting Godly, than it is waiting and being angry at Him. I know from experience. When I was on fire for Christ, I felt no different inside, even when I ignored it and tried to believe He had the best for me. It simply just does not seem to work. I wait everyday hoping she is just around the corner, so I can put all this behind me and yeah even get on fire for God again. I just don't want to be alone anymore. It hurts too much.

You'll see, hang in there. God has a great gift for you.

I hope you're right, and I really want to believe that. I just don't know what to do anymore.

on-again-off-again with a Filipina for a while.  Nice girl.  Nice country.  Conservative culture.  Mostly Catholic though.

Wanna give me her number if your off again? lol...

[shygirl]

You know, to be honest I actually kinda of have a thing for Philipino girls. They're actually my favorite. But I really don't have the money to afford a trip like that, nor do I know of any churchs having missions to that area.

Really?  I've been on-again-off-again with a Filipina for a while.  Nice girl.  Nice country.  Conservative culture.  Mostly Catholic though.

Hahahaha.Then maybe that's one reason why it's hard for you to find your special someone then.Cause the one you want is one the other side of the world.?

You have some preferrences, maybe you should just not wait then, maybe there's a need for you to do something too.? 



Wycliffes, why not give your friend's number to him (assuming you're off with her again).Who knows, she maybe what he's waiting for

[Mike619]

Hahahaha.Then maybe that's one reason why it's hard for you to find your special someone then.Cause the one you want is one the other side of the world.?

There are plenty of philipina girls here in America. The problem is finding one that isn't already taken by someone else, and is at least 18.

[kensington]

WHY should God give you a Christian wife?  If you went to a man, to ask for his daughters hand in marriage, and you called him names, insulted him to his face, to his other children, trying to convince them that the man was not worth asking for his daughters hand...

Do you really expect that he would give you one of his precious daughters?

You want a wife, bemoaning it on a Christian site how God owes her to you, and how you hate him for not giving her to you...  And yet, you want one of His precious daughters that His Son was crucified beaten on the cross for? 

I don't get it.  If I was God I would not let you near one of my daughters...  I wouldn't now, and I am not even God.

[Elaine]

WHY should God give you a Christian wife?  If you went to a man, to ask for his daughters hand in marriage, and you called him names, insulted him to his face, to his other children, trying to convince them that the man was not worth asking for his daughters hand...

Do you really expect that he would give you one of his precious daughters?

You want a wife, bemoaning it on a Christian site how God owes her to you, and how you hate him for not giving her to you...  And yet, you want one of His precious daughters that His Son was crucified beaten on the cross for? 

I don't get it.  If I was God I would not let you near one of my daughters...  I wouldn't now, and I am not even God.

High five on that one.

[OldDad]

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