How hard is it to find a girl like this?

[dothackzero]

Is a virgin
Has a healthy weight
Looks good. She doesn't have to be the hottest girl ever, but still looks to the eyes.
Is around the 18-22 area.
Is a Christian.
Loves God, and wants to grow closer to him.
Hasn't ever had any contact with a guy's penis, or another girls vagina other than her own.
Doesn't smoke
Doesn't do drugs
Doesn't drink or atleast doesn't get drunk.

Obviously this isn't everything I'm looking for in a girl. But they are some of the main things I'm looking for, and I'm not asking for anything more than I ask of my self.

[ButterflyKisses]

well, I know a lot of girls like what you describe, myself included.  There are a lot that aren't at all like what you describe but there are girls like that around.  You just have to keep looking but they are out there.

[chosenone]

Is a virgin
Has a healthy weight
Looks good. She doesn't have to be the hottest girl ever, but still looks to the eyes.
Is around the 18-22 area.
Is a Christian.
Loves God, and wants to grow closer to him.
Hasn't ever had any contact with a guy's penis, or another girls vagina other than her own.
Doesn't smoke
Doesn't do drugs
Doesn't drink or atleast doesn't get drunk.

Obviously this isn't everything I'm looking for in a girl. But they are some of the main things I'm looking for, and I'm not asking for anything more than I ask of my self.

 might depend on what you mean by a 'healthy weight' and 'looks good'
. Many guys want an ultra thin model type girl and there arent many of them around and if there are they can often be arrogannt becuase of their looks. so be realistic and dont dismiss someone just becuase they dont fit your strict criteria. Neither my husband or I fitted each others 'type' in the looks dept initially but we have a fantastic marriage and are so happy, so the person that God has for you may not be the one that you actually think you should have . keep an open mind and go with God.

[OneLung]

Have you ever actually read the fine print on the back of a lottery ticket? Therein lies your answer.   

[fanuvmxpx]

might depend on what you mean by a 'healthy weight' and 'looks good'. Many guys want an ultra thin model type girl and there arent many of them around

You might not believe me, but that is your make up companies & clothing companies lying to you. Its not what guys want. A recent study I read showed that most men preferred voluptous women (like Eva Mendez) over scrawny runway models.

Just something to think about. Do men REALLY want skinny stick women...or is that what advertising tells you? (TV, magazines, commercials, stores, etc.). You can talk to my wife about it if you like, she has seen the light on this scam.

[Howdyboyalan]

Its not about being skinny, its about not being rotund.

The super attractive women are not stick skinny, but are rotund in the right places, like eva mendez. Not just generally rotund.

I like the word rotund.

[dothackzero]

The super attractive women are not stick skinny, but are rotund in the right places, like eva mendez. Not just generally rotund.

That really is true. As for looks, mostly being a in a healthy weight range takes care of the looks. Other than that, I for the most part, I just mean no major difiguring facial scars and no missing body parts. Which might just be my just be anxeity talking anyway since I don't know anyone like that. :p

[OneLung]

The super attractive women are not stick skinny, but are rotund in the right places, like eva mendez. Not just generally rotund.

...and no missing body parts.

Hey, that's not nice. 

[chosenone]

might depend on what you mean by a 'healthy weight' and 'looks good'. Many guys want an ultra thin model type girl and there arent many of them around

You might not believe me, but that is your make up companies & clothing companies lying to you. Its not what guys want. A recent study I read showed that most men preferred voluptous women (like Eva Mendez) over scrawny runway models.

Just something to think about. Do men REALLY want skinny stick women...or is that what advertising tells you? (TV, magazines, commercials, stores, etc.). You can talk to my wife about it if you like, she has seen the light on this scam.

 Not talking about stick thin women but about slim women, there is a difference. I dont know many women who want to be stick thin, but most want to be slim and that is because most men like slim women over the average sized ones.(in my experiance)

[dothackzero]

might depend on what you mean by a 'healthy weight' and 'looks good'. Many guys want an ultra thin model type girl and there arent many of them around

You might not believe me, but that is your make up companies & clothing companies lying to you. Its not what guys want. A recent study I read showed that most men preferred voluptous women (like Eva Mendez) over scrawny runway models.

Just something to think about. Do men REALLY want skinny stick women...or is that what advertising tells you? (TV, magazines, commercials, stores, etc.). You can talk to my wife about it if you like, she has seen the light on this scam.

 Not talking about stick thin women but about slim women, there is a difference. I dont know many women who want to be stick thin, but most want to be slim and that is because most men like slim women over the average sized ones.(in my experiance)

and I wouldn't wanna get a stick thin girl.

[Fem2009]

Good luck finding a girl that hasn't had any sexual contact with anyone else. That is very rare these days. Not impossible but rare. It will take alot of patience and strong will. It's also very judgmental of you to have a list so shallow. What SHOULD matter is that she will be devoted to you through marriage and treat you with love and respect. I understand that attraction is important. men are very visual. However, a part of being christian involves controlling your thoughts and actions. Looks fade, connections (emotional, physical, intellectual) last a lifetime if both people are on the same level.

[kristinaf]

I, too, think it is hard to find someone who is a virgin these days.  Unless you look at a home-schooled girl who was raised as a Christian, who is 18! 

I think it is very important that you are looking for someone with good values.  The Bible talks alot about fornication, and it never mentions this as a "good thing". 

I made the mistake of sleeping around when I was younger.  I regret this, and would recommend to anyone reading this of a young age that it really isn't worth it.

I am now "saving myself" for marriage.  I put that in quotes for obvious reasons, but I believe now that waiting is precious, and fornication is just plain wrong.  Stick to your guns, you are on the right track waiting for marriage, and I pray that God brings that special person your way.

[Wycliffes_Shillelagh]

Try seducing a nun.

Really...it's not as hard as it sounds.  I mean..uh...

[wolflet7]

men are very visual.

You forgot to include women too.  Most of the girls in my High School Youth Group hang out with all the "hot guys" aka the ones that are just in it for the fun and girls.  They sometimes give me a rude glare if I so much as look or even acknowledge their presence!

[kristinaf]

men are very visual.

You forgot to include women too.  Most of the girls in my High School Youth Group hang out with all the "hot guys" aka the ones that are just in it for the fun and girls.  They sometimes give me a rude glare if I so much as look or even acknowledge their presence!

  I'm sorry to hear that.  I think women should at least try to give good Christian guys a chance, even though their looks are not "perfect".  There is a "good Christian guy" who is pursuing me, and unfortunately, because of the way he looks on the outside, I can't seem to get past it.  I am really trying to give this guy a chance, but I don't know to what degree I should compromise on looks.  We get along pretty well, the conversations are good..etc.  But I can't seem to get past his looks.  I'm sorry but that's just the way it is.  Sometimes "it's there" and sometimes it just isn't.  That's the way life goes.  : (  I really wish looks didn't matter because otherwise this guy would be a fine catch.  This is actually realllly bothering me...this issue of whether or not to settle.  I am on a fine line of 1) really wanting to get married to someone who is a Christian and 2) not wanting to settle for someone who is not my type, even though he is a Christian.

My problem is that I have two other guys who may be interested in me, not that that is the problem, but the problem is that they are not Christian, and I only want to be with a Christian.

My dilemma is that I am 31 years old, and am really sick of being single.           So, I am getting to the point of wondering if I am just being "too picky" or what.  It has only been recently that I have been looking for a Christian - only.  Prior to that I was living however I liked (prior to knowing Jesus).      So, my biggest issue is that I have one and only one Christian guy who is pursuing me and he is not my type, looks-wise.  I guess I'll just simply HAVE TO WAIT, frustrating though that is.  I'm just in this dilemma because of the lack of Christian guys in my life.  Maybe it's time for a bigger church? lol.