Dear brother, God does not give us all the same bodily gift, but we can use what we have to our and other's advantage or edification if applied correctly, and we need wisdom to do that.
James 1:5 "If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him."
This is God's will for us and when we ask anything "ACCORDING TO HIS WILL." 1 John 5:14 says "And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us."
Proverbs 8:11 "For wisdom is better than rubies; and all the things that may be desired are not to be compared to it."
Lastly, Psalms 100:3 "Know ye that the LORD he is God: it is he that hath made us, and not we ourselves . . . "
Take what the LORD gave you and run with it. Get wisdow to know how to use the gift that is within you, and build those godly characteristics the right virtuous woman is looking for.
There is an old country song that had the lyrics "Looking for love in all the wrong places. Don't let it be you.