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« on: October 25, 2009, 11:36:16 PM »
For some reason, guys seem to like me and find me attractive. The thing is I am not attracted to most of the guys that like me. The ones that I really like see me a friend or sister.
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« Reply #1 on: October 26, 2009, 12:44:46 AM »
I think its not just true for ladies its also same with men...

I would recommend the book "Lady in Waiting" by Debby Jones and Jackie Kendall. These women authors will surely help u answer your question. The book will minister to u for sure.
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« Reply #2 on: October 28, 2009, 12:34:44 AM »
^ Thanks I will  read it.
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« Reply #3 on: October 28, 2009, 01:36:13 PM »
Thats life. Those we like dont like us and visa versa. My daughter says this all the time.
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« Reply #4 on: October 30, 2009, 05:43:35 AM »
Showing interest is always a compliment (unless they're taken) but activly 'hitting' on you can be a bit weird.
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« Reply #5 on: October 30, 2009, 10:13:12 PM »
I'm ok for the most part, it's the aggressive hitting on that wierds me out, and the same thing happens to me too. But I'm just gonna wait paitently and see what the Lord has in store.
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« Reply #6 on: October 30, 2009, 10:56:01 PM »



   Please define "hitting on."     Confused
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« Reply #7 on: October 30, 2009, 11:36:20 PM »
Flirting in general
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« Reply #8 on: October 31, 2009, 07:43:28 AM »
we always want what we can't have...

and any prize easily won doesn't seem worth having...no matter the value.

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« Reply #9 on: November 30, 2009, 04:16:57 AM »
Maybe it's very embarrassing for some shy men like me to tell a woman that he loves her, maybe what is looked like a normal interest is a great esoteric love, that kind of love that causes what we call here (Celibacy courtship or respectful courtship); It seems like a compliment but the hidden meanings is much wider.
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« Reply #10 on: November 30, 2009, 10:17:43 PM »
I've tried looking for signals. . . . .but you ladies call that staring. . . . . Crack up

I've tried just being a friend. . . . but you ladies just call that "no chemistry". Scratching head....a little confused.

I think flirting is a great way to break the ice, and it's not too hard to figure out how to behave from there.  Laugh if you want.  I'll laugh too. 
                                                   Flirt back if you want.  I'll ask you out.
                                                    Show me your ring.  I'm outta there.

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« Reply #11 on: December 15, 2009, 09:50:16 PM »
Excellent thoughts babe.  I like to flirt.  Some guys need to quit staring at me and walk up and tell me a joke...please nothing crude though.

Quote from: babe on November 30, 2009, 10:17:43 PM
I think flirting is a great way to break the ice, and it's not too hard to figure out how to behave from there.  Laugh if you want.  I'll laugh too. 
                                                   Flirt back if you want.  I'll ask you out.
                                                    Show me your ring.  I'm outta there.
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« Reply #12 on: December 25, 2009, 07:40:27 PM »
Honestly, I am okay with being hit on as long as I am hit on by those I am attracted to.  I am wary of those I talk with as I unintentionally come of as flirting through my conversations with men.  I have not found that balance between flirting and non-flirting that is not cold.
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« Reply #13 on: January 08, 2010, 06:39:13 AM »
I'm sure I would like it- if it ever actually happened to me...SIGH... Frowning
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« Reply #14 on: January 08, 2010, 10:30:07 AM »
Ms rachell:

Quote from: rachelliott on January 08, 2010, 06:39:13 AM
I'm sure I would like it- if it ever actually happened to me...SIGH... Frowning

You see, with respect, you need to get beyond the cultivating your feelings thing.

It's more of a matter of seeking the Lord's will and depending on Him, and then trying also to be a sympathetic friend to other ppl, even if one will become your husband eventually.

(I'm writing this in the light of your comments on the other thread, too.)

Take care.
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