I was engaged to be married one year ago today. I had to break off the engagement due to some lies I uncovered my ex-fiance was keeping from me. One year later we are not engaged, but rather have been together dating only. She has recently become very good friends with another guy and it's escalated to a point where she has admitted she would date him if we don't work out. She has done a lot of therapy work and I feel is a much better person today than she was a year ago. She is to the point now where she wants to move ahead with her life and wants me either to recommit or let her go completely. I am at a loss of what to do. I love her so much, but still have some reservations but can't imagine living without her. She has lied in the past, kept in contact with old boyfriends, and has financial issues. I believe she has learned a lot and won't continue this pattern. She posted this on her facebook today....1 year ago today my life should have changed forever. What was one of the hardest days of my life has turned into one of the biggest learning experiences I've ever known. A lot changes in a year. So cheers to what could have been. But more importantly, cheers for who I've become as a result of what could have been.
I need to make a big decision and am just looking for some feedback and thoughts for me to think through. Thanks.