Update. I did a google search of the guy this morning - had tried previously and found nothing. I discovered he is using his middle name. I don't blame him as I'm not crazy about his first name. Haha. BUT everything matched, where he lived and had lived previously according to his profile, his age and birthdate. All that matched exactly BUT it also said he was MARRIED! His profiled said single-never-married. I promptly deleted the gmail account I'd created to contact him. Glad I never shared my last name. I was honestly having too much anxiety over the whole thing anyway. We tried to voice chat on google last night and I couldn't figure out how to pick up the call. Now, I'm glad. Again, maybe the MARRIED thing wasn't right but everything else was so surely he was married at some point! I am often shocked how many 'separated' individuals have a profile on a dating site.