Good for you
Its perfectly normal and natural to want someone to be married to and to have a family with.
What I usually say to people though is that the man of your dreams isnt going to turn up on your door step. So you need to go to places where people are, to give you the opportunity to meet people and make friends.
Do you have a good church? Do you do things where you may meet Christian men? Have you tried Christian internet dating/friendship sites? I know 8 Christian couples who met that way. Speed dating(ok not everyone's cup of tea but popular none the less).
Just a thought on what you said. You said what you want and need from a marriage, but its also about what we can do for the other person and meeting their needs as well.