Thanks for all your help. I think I'm going to have to call this one quits...at least take a break from our relationship. There are some issues in her life that need to be worked out between her and God. I truly believe that she needs to find her identity in Him which a relationship will not help. Right now, I am her world and identity. She does not have any Christian women around her that she could confide in, nor is she making any sustainable effort to seek female accountability. Whenever she finds someone in our fellowship that she could "connect" with, she says, "I don't have any time." We've fought and argues over these issues almost every night that we've been together. I've never been in a long relationship and I know fighting is good, but this is a bit unhealthy.
She is a really sweet girl. She loves Christ. She's spearheaded many ministries. She's breathed life into some that had none. In public, she's awesome! Everyone loves her...even my parents. But right now, we have plane tickets to see my parents during Thanksgiving, but I think that would complicate matters. I don't want my parents to get too attached at this moment.
She will put up a fight to try to change my mind. I need tons of prayer in how I'm going to proceed with this. I really don't want to break up with her, but a "break" would be good for us to figure things out. I feel terrible because she picked up and moved her life to be with me. My heart is heavy.