What do men look for in a wife?

[yesult]

It seems my attempt at self-deprecating humor may have been too subtle. I apologize if anyone was offended.

         Grrrrr. We'll fight you in the trenches

[sopranette]

Yeah, that's the plan. Win the lotto, buy a red Lamborghini and marry a super-model.
I think it is a pretty good plan.

How about a woman who can change the oil in your Lamborghini?  Best of both worlds right there! 

love,

sopranette

[Richard]

Yeah, that's the plan. Win the lotto, buy a red Lamborghini and marry a super-model.
I think it is a pretty good plan.

How about a woman who can change the oil in your Lamborghini?  Best of both worlds right there! 

love,

sopranette

Now THAT is hot!

[Wycliffes_Shillelagh]

Unfortuantely, this post:

1. She has to be hot
2. She has to like me a lot
3. She has to be really hot
4. She has to love me a lot
5. She has to be smoking hot
6. She has to think I walk on water
7. She has to be really smoking hot

Did I mention she has to be hot? BTW, I'm still single

...describes my current gf a lot more than this post:

The first and most important thing I look for is ME not looking for a wife.  If I can't be satisfied single, I won't be satisfied married.  No person can fill what God is supposed to fill.  If I feel that I NEED a wife, then I shouldn't be married to one.
We must have a significant amount of unity and agreement when it comes to our walks with Christ.
Someone who will allow me to be myself, and someone that I feel I can be myself around.
Someone who is satisfied being single and who doesn't need me.
Someone who knows how to handle money and assets responsibly.
Someone with whom I can have meaningful and intelligent conversations.
Someone who is content.

By the way, that's a good list.

Smoochie Bootchie!

Jarrod

[wolflet7]

(PS. And not that I mind cooking (in fact I like it) or specifically laundry. But if a guy is going to try to use me to do his dirty work around the house, then he needs to deal with some issues.

 

Oh, don't worry, I have more than laundry and cooking on my list, so I guess we're compatible...

Lol, not really.  I don't date online people (and I'm still in high school anyways).

[yesult]

No, just run. My sword is really pointy  (and very sharp.)

[wolflet7]

And I definitely do not want to be in the way of it!

[Online Dater]

I was looking for someone who understands me the way I am. Who is beautiful inside and out..Good thing I finally found her..


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[IamStefanie]

aaawwww

And then you wonder why guys don't respond.

LOL...yeah I hear guys don't the like repsonses of 'awww', 'that's sweet, or 'how cute!'
LOL

[BornAgain]

What about a guy that says "awhhhhhhhhhhhhh"...........Now that is just plain "sissy" to me.

I can't stand that. I met a guy online that I have been talking with who has actually become a friend but he could never be anything else if for no other reason that the "awhhhhhhhhhhhhhh's I hear coming out of his mouth !!!


I like a "Man's man"...........

[JohnDB]

Since I am on the newlywed list.

When I was dating I knew precisely what I wanted...and it wasn't all about me...it was about the "whoever she is" as well...

I know that a woman who was going to be with me needs to be happy with me and not just the idea of me. (and that illusion can be extremely powerful)

What was ultimately important to me and her both was that I be a spiritual leader in the home...
She was a former minister for the Salvation Army...no normal guy was ever gonna measure up...and for me...no normal woman was ever gonna measure up (and none did)

We both have a heart for missions...we are always working towards getting out on the road to do them.
This is the one thing what both drives our marriage closer and closer...our desire to serve God.  We have it good...better than most do with our marriage. We ain't perfect but we are united in a way that is awesome.

[sedux]

godliness.

Since I am on the newlywed list.

When I was dating I knew precisely what I wanted...and it wasn't all about me...it was about the "whoever she is" as well...

I know that a woman who was going to be with me needs to be happy with me and not just the idea of me. (and that illusion can be extremely powerful)

What was ultimately important to me and her both was that I be a spiritual leader in the home...
She was a former minister for the Salvation Army...no normal guy was ever gonna measure up...and for me...no normal woman was ever gonna measure up (and none did)

We both have a heart for missions...we are always working towards getting out on the road to do them.
This is the one thing what both drives our marriage closer and closer...our desire to serve God.  We have it good...better than most do with our marriage. We ain't perfect but we are united in a way that is awesome.

Congratulations newlyweds! 

[walker starr]

   


                  She has to love me unconditionaly as I will her.   I have been extremely fortunate the last two (out of three) were perfect.  Thank you JESUS,AMEN.
                                                   wALKER

[JohnDB]

This is a touchy subject in a lot of ways...

But I would highly reccomend that women not agree to marry a guy that they can't give their complete respect to. He should never feel the need to demand it...cause he shouldn't demand it. She has to give it willingly and without hesitation.

By the same token he has to be willing to make her feel loved. Figure out what she wants as far as feeling loved and then give it to her. Without her having to demand that...and she shouldn't. He has to willingly and without hesitation give it to her.

If these two things happen...you will have the most successful relationship out there. Dating or otherwise. Flirty girls may seem to get all the attention...but it isn't exactly the right kind. Seldom do they really respect themselves...and then will have issues respecting someone else. (guys do pick up on this)

Insensitive jerks at times can seem to have a lot of inner strength (and gain all kinds of attention from the girls) but at the same time...insensitivity never keeps a lasting relationship either. So...they do date a lot of different women...

[Tantor]

Given my history.. if there is one thing that I learned about the dating process.. is that God will provide the right person (even if you think they aren't) if you are patient and discerning.

My marriage right now far exceeds my dreams.