Why has God ignored me?

[IamStefanie]

I agree with the obsessing over it.  We follow God, he doesn't follow us. Stop trying to make him fulfill your desires and choose to follow his. When you lay your life down for what he wants, you'll have peace, because you've got the most important thing in your life sorted.

Yes, we all struggle to that place, but the short cuts (like already posted) can be really nasty. I've seen that too, and it isn't worth it. If we're not married already and we've prayed about it then there's a reason. And a good one. God loves us and wants the best for our lives, but he sees the big picture, we don't.

I like your answer....

[4real]

God has not ignored you I also am 27 years old and single.  I know how you feel because I've felt the same way.  One day God revealed to me that obsession was a trick of the enemy.  Do not become obsessed with your singleness instead focus more on God and passionately pursue him.  The world sets up standards for us telling us that we have to be married at a particular age.  Do not be conformed to the world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.  God will bless u in your due season. So in the meantime prepare yourself.