There has to be some chemistry there, and God knows who we will 'click' with. My second husband isnt the usual physical type that I am usually attracted to(which is the larger stocky type of man) and he is slim and tall, but I adore him, and did so from the time I met him. He is attractive to me and so is his character.
If you dont find a girl in anyway attractive to you, then she probably isnt the one for you, but people can become more attractive the more you get to know then because of their personalities and characters. I think that we all know the most physically attractive people who are actually not very nice, and so that makes them seem more unnattractive. Give me a physically nprmal average man anyday who is a lovely nice and godly guy, over a good looking man who is arrogant and self absorbed and who loves himself.(which many of them do).Nothing I hate more than a vain man.