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Will God give me a spouse that will look good to me?
« on: August 12, 2011, 12:26:12 AM »
Basically I'm just worried that I'll get a girl that's overweight or something that I'd find really unattractive in a girl. Basically, the only reason I'm asking this is because the only girl that I know that's into the stuff that I am in real life isn't that attractive to me.

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« Reply #1 on: August 12, 2011, 12:31:50 AM »
Basically I'm just worried that I'll get a girl that's overweight or something that I'd find really unattractive in a girl. Basically, the only reason I'm asking this is because the only girl that I know that's into the stuff that I am in real life isn't that attractive to me.



You know Shallow Hal, it could be that she just ain't into you either.  ::frown::

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Re: Will God give me a spouse that will look good to me?
« Reply #2 on: August 12, 2011, 01:26:20 AM »
Well God isnt going to find you a spouse who you cant bear to look at, but some women who are slightly large are actually very beautiful physically. It does actually annoy me that most men have to have a skinny women even if they are large themselves, but he ho thats life I suppose.
Skinny rules it seems(did you know that it is actually more dangerous health wise for people to be underweight than it is for them to be slightly over weight? Yes they have done research). I used to be very thin (underweight) in my teens and 20's, and now I am normal/average weight so much healthier. Anyway sorry thats off topic.

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Re: Will God give me a spouse that will look good to me?
« Reply #3 on: August 12, 2011, 01:46:49 AM »
It does actually annoy me that most men have to have a skinny women even if they are large themselves

I'm about average size.

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Re: Will God give me a spouse that will look good to me?
« Reply #4 on: August 12, 2011, 01:49:27 AM »
It does actually annoy me that most men have to have a skinny women even if they are large themselves

I'm about average size.

I am sure that whoever God brings for you, she will be the right one. However dont dismiss a lady just because she isnt skinny. Not much fun cudding a bag of bones!

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Re: Will God give me a spouse that will look good to me?
« Reply #5 on: August 12, 2011, 10:53:53 PM »
A spouse is supposed to be beautiful.  I think in the bible where Isaac looked at his wife and found her beautiful.
How do you define beautiful?  Is it just thin?

Most skinny girls I know are very high-maintence and expect the very best.  I work with a single gal who is 27 and she is beautiful.  Gorgeous!   She walks in the room and the world stops for a second to stare.   However, no man is good enough.   She expects to marry a rich man who is good looking and will take care of her and buy her lots of stuff.   She makes it quite clear to any guy that she will only accept the best and makes fun of guys who are below her "standards" right to their face.

So, are you the best?   Are you the best looking guy?  Are you rich? 

You have to remember that America's version of beauty is very different from the rest of the world.  Most of the models you see on billboards and in magazines are photoshopped to look like that.

Not to mention most women gain weight AFTER they get married.   Are you going to stop loving your wife if she gains 30 pounds.. Because she probably will.

Nobody is perfect.   If this girl is not attractive at all, than she is not the girl for you.  If she is 20 pounds overweight, give her a chance.   Don't miss out on something good because you were to vain to give it a try.

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Re: Will God give me a spouse that will look good to me?
« Reply #6 on: August 15, 2011, 10:29:30 PM »
Personally, the girl I love isn't extremely "worldly" beautiful like some blondy out of playboy, but she's the most beautiful girl in my eyes. So I'd yes YES to you getting a spouse that will look BEAUTIFUL to you. The main thing you gotta remember is WORLDLY aspects of "beauty." The world would say pretty much any girl in playboy is suppose to be "beautiful," but in reality, are they? Yeah they are because God made all women to be a piece of art, how you react to the beauty is up to you. The best thing to do is wait and someone will come into your life and you'll know. They'll have true beauty, and you will love them for it. (along with other reasons I hope)  ::clappingoverhead::

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Re: Will God give me a spouse that will look good to me?
« Reply #7 on: August 16, 2011, 11:28:55 PM »
Hmm.  I'm not skinny, I'm built more like one of those poster girls from the 40s?  You know, busty, hippy and a teeny waist.  Of course, girls like me are definitely not into average guys like you for sure LOL!!   ::cool::

Being so worried about "getting" an unattractive girl must be very time consuming.  I'd suggest spending more time meeting and being interested in new people without being a judgmental average sort that most girls don't even notice, KWIM?


Srsly.   rofl

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Re: Will God give me a spouse that will look good to me?
« Reply #8 on: August 18, 2011, 09:22:29 PM »
Jesus wants us to love any and all people.

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Re: Will God give me a spouse that will look good to me?
« Reply #9 on: August 19, 2011, 08:14:44 AM »
If you're not attracted to a girl, don't marry her.  God won't force you to marry anyone. 

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Re: Will God give me a spouse that will look good to me?
« Reply #10 on: August 20, 2011, 10:40:13 PM »
There has to be some chemistry there, and God knows who we will 'click' with. My second husband isnt the usual physical type that I am usually attracted to(which is the larger stocky type of man) and he is slim and tall, but I adore him, and did so from the time I met him. He is attractive to me and so is his character.
If you dont find a girl in anyway attractive to you, then she probably isnt the one for you, but people can become more attractive the more you get to know then because of their personalities and characters. I think that we all know the most physically attractive people who are actually not very nice, and so that makes them seem more unnattractive. Give me a physically nprmal average man anyday who is a lovely nice and godly guy, over a good looking man who is arrogant and self absorbed and who loves himself.(which many of them do).Nothing I hate more than a vain man.