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Offline Mirie

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Advice on leaving husband
« on: Tue Jul 10, 2018 - 21:26:10 »
Hello, I've been trying to formulate what to say and how to get there for a while now. I've been married to my husband for 12 years, some of it is okay but most of it consists of me walking on eggshells and being screamed at. He told me before we got married that he was a Christian,  then two years in came out and told me he had been lying all along. He never believed. He has always been verbally abusive to me, but it slowly has progressed to him tossing things at me, or like tonight, smashing a hard pillow into my face/head. He is threatening to kill my cats if I don't get rid of one ect. I have a very dear friend who kinda knows what's going on and I will be speaking to her tomorrow on the phone. I need some prayers and help please, on how to get the ball rolling to get me and my cats safe. I'm not sure when I will bring this up to him, but please pray for me. The reason I did not leave sooner is I fear for my cats safety if i go someplace. Family is an option also, my family and i are very close. Thank you, God bless.

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Advice on leaving husband
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Re: Advice on leaving husband
« Reply #1 on: Wed Jul 11, 2018 - 04:01:57 »
Hi Mirie

He is an abusive man and you do need to get away. Don't even mention what you are going to do, he may well get very angry and abusive if you do,  but make plans to get the cats out of the house and leave.

I am sure that your family would help being that you are close. Do you have a good supportive church?

 

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Re: Advice on leaving husband
« Reply #1 on: Wed Jul 11, 2018 - 04:01:57 »

 

     
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