We are told to edify one another, to lift the hearer up with our words.
Eph 4:29 Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.
Which of the two do you suppose is the way the Word means?
1. To calm them with things pleasing to the ears so as to not cause them anymore anguish or chaos in their life?
2. To strengthen them with the truth of God's Word, to help them lift UP their standards, to raise them up from the life of death unto life, to give them sight of God's truth so they no longer live blinded by the things corrupted of this world's errored ways?