I say, as long as they are not cohabiting ( sleeping together in same bed) in your home. keep the connection going between you daughter, and you. I think, I would stop telling her about her sinful choices she knows, and it always ends in destruction. I would not be an enabler as far as baling her out financially. Choices have consequences, and you are taking on her consequences. Maybe things will workout this time, we tend to write the ending to our own story. I wonder if showing Christian love to a sinner man, maybe it would effect him more than any words your husband could say.

 Son love ya, but here we go again taking the word out of context. The passage was talking about people within the church. We may reffer to the prodigal son, when asking dealing with this situation.

(1Co 5:9)  I wrote to you in the letter not to associate intimately with fornicators;

(1Co 5:10)  yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then you must go out of the world.

(1Co 5:11)  But now I have written to you not to associate intimately, if any man called a brother and is either a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such a one not to eat.

(1Co 5:12)  For what is it to me to also judge those who are outside? Do you not judge those who are inside?

(1Co 5:13)  But God judges those who are outside. Therefore put out from you the evil one.

This passage is speaking of one who is called a brother/sister.  In the OP, that is the stated case.


(Tit 3:10)  After the first and second warning, reject a man of heresy,

(Tit 3:11)  knowing that he who is such has been perverted, and sins, being self-condemned.

This passage doesn't even qualify that it is speaking of those called a brother/sister, does it?  In context, it can be taken to be in regard to the unsaved that don't profess to know Christ.  "Making a distinction" is applicable here, too.  And what Christ said about if they don't receive the Word, then go to those who will: go to where the harvest is ripe -- quite trying to harvest where it is yet green.  By their fruits you will know them, etc..  There is much Word that is applicable to the situation of the OP.

Looking at the passages that those are within, I don't see that applying them to this situation is taking them out of context at all.  Could you support your position on that, please?  Thanks.

And she claims to be a believer. 

If you ask L2, if a person professes to be saved, then they are saved no matter what: no matter if they remain in flagrant, willful sin for the rest of their lives, murdering and raping: they prefessed to know Christ, therefore they do.  So by his standard, this gal is definitely saved.  And as such, she should be treated accordingly, no?

You are welcome,  I guess it comes down to what you feel is right to do. They are not Christians, they say they have faith, but do not follow Jesus. I  guess love never fails, though I can understand your frustration, it must also break your heart.