Hehealedme....you may have heard from another source and gotten some info, yet I would still encourage you to read this article...as it is about 50 yrs of experience in this area....and I would not jump to conclusions that this is not one of those cases...as many (1 in 2000 births a yr) start out with anomalies that cause much confusion. I have known a number of people struggling with homosexuality...and it is not something that anyone would choose...none that I knew would have ever chosen to live with this struggle...which is why there is such a high suicide rate among people who are dealing with their identity.
Any that truly do not have an inborn reason for their identity issue are usually using homosexuality to deal or mask past pain....just like alcoholism, drug addiction, and so forth. NO one wakes up and says, geee I think I'll be a drug addict or homosexual today! We do not search out these things...they find us out of some sin that was done to us and damaged us. NOTHING just comes out of the blue...there are reasons....that is why they need healing. One gal I was helping once in a group I was leading had been violated repeatedly by her father and brother when growing up.....she subsequently grew up detesting men.
Remember, gossip, deceit, rage, coveting, selfish-ambition, lust, impure thoughts, pride, hostility, idolatry are just as bad, maybe worse, yet we don't talk about these nearly as much. (Gal. 5:19-21)
When you think that people deliberately choose to be a homosexual.....ask yourself IF YOU could ever choose it for yourself?? Well, could you?? I would never consciously, with my heart, choose it....no way! God never originally planned for this (or other things) to happen, so therefore SOMETHING had to have happened for a person to find themselves in that position.
We see and accept that what Adam and Eve did caused us to be born quilty...and we know that this IS FAIR because if we were in their place in the garden, we would have done the very same thing as they did! We are just as susceptable as anyone to anything....which is why we need to be careful when judging.