If you are concerned, PM Admin. I would rather find out everyone's perception of me in an honest Christian evaluation rather than thinking I am thought of one way and actually the other by my peers. By the way, narcissist would be probably one of the tamest names I have been called here. If that shoe fits me, so be it. It would be up to me to change that perception. Something worthy to find out in my case. As my mother used to always tell me, "Son you are no better than everybody thinks you are." Not the most eloquent advise, but I got the idea.