hi, i don't swear a lot, not usually but there are outer influences that can cause me to swear even when i do not want to do so but it just makes me feel better, if i don't i don't feel better and then i think what's the big deal? it's just an outlet but then i don't think God likes it. i don't want a reply telling me that God doesn't like me to so just don't do it if that's the case, but i want understanding and compassion and help. if you don't swear at all then how do you do it. is it b/c you always have an easy life? is it is b/c it's a 'personality' trait i have that i need an outlet? Thank you a lot
Hello from a tired of the pain old veteran in the woods of SE Texas and take heart, if I can do it a sweet lady can do it also.
I was raised in a house where Incest was the rule of the day, before the, so called, Sexual Revolution was even considered. Since I had viewed my mother doing things that I can not get out of my head before I was 6 and because q filthy mouth was normal, every day, conversation, you betcha I cursed enough to curl a thirty year sailor's toes. And that was truly, the least of my filthy habits, growing up in a house where until I was ten, the bedroom door of my mom never closed, my sisters and I had an education that until the ¿Sexual Revolution? could only be gained in the worst Brothels of the Asian World. Lots to be bitter about and I was.
I spent two months short of eight years in the Army with thirty months total for three tours in Vietnam and that did nothing to improve my vocabulary and on my Separation I picked up my guitar and played in some real nice Joints such as Little Moes and Porky's where somebody was, at least, going to the hospital, all of which did nothing for my filthy mouth.
Do I curse today? No mam, Yashua and His Father, YHWH got a hold of me through Ruach. the Holy Spirit and nothing, from that day forward is the same. I do, when I get upset or something goes horribly, sometimes release the irritation by screaming at the top of my vocal range, "Well, spit on the bucket!" For irritating but less stressful situations I usually shorten that down to "Spit."
There is nothing wrong with your personality that is not common to all of us, we were all born Sinful Humans, in need of being molded through Ruach by Yashua.
And please do not be nor feel intimidated because I have chosen to refer to our LORD by the untranslated original names, it does not make me think I am Holier than anyone. I just have a Hallelujah Scriptures Bible and the true Jewish names for all things and people were left in place and I just want to Worship my Elohim (God) in everything I do, even my marriage.
May you be blessed as much as He has blessed me and mine.