Thanks for your input I really appreciate it. How can any one be 100% sure about anything, but I do believe that she is very special. I guess the best way to get advice is to put it out there. She miscarried about a week and a half ago and is still recovering from it, but wont rest herself as much as she has been told to by physicians
OK so was that your baby? Did you know that The Bible says not to have sex till after marriage? You have only known each other for 3 months and already she was pregnant. Its a very important to stay in Gods blessing by obeying Him in this. Having a baby at this time with all the issues she has would be a total disaster, especially outside marriage. She must have got pregnant in the first month of you being together. Don't even think of sex again or a baby till you are married is my advise, and that's also what God tells us.
Take it slowly, in time as you get to know each other better, God will show you if you are to stay together if you stay open to Him. Just because she is special, doesn't mean that she is the one for you remember.