Once you have become humbled by your soul, you can love yourself.
You know that self-love is condemned in the bible, right?
2 Timothy 3.2 For men will be lovers of self
: lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy,
3 unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good,
4 treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God,
What does loving yourself look like: Paul answers it here with this list.
lovers of money
disobedient to parents
haters of good
lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God
That is what "loving yourself" is.