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Offline VisionQwest

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What Does She Do?
« on: Mon Jun 03, 2019 - 21:27:44 »
I have an hypothetical topic. I like to see what others may say on this situation I brainstormed at home in my head. So let's suppose this situation.

There was a single woman working 5 days a week, 8 hours a day and she has a 12 year old daughter.

One day her daughter told  her mother that about 3 months ago she slept with a boy sixteen years old. And now she found out she is pregnant by him and has not since then slept with anyone else.

The mother is single because she also dated some guy for a few months. He left before she had her baby. Now she is going to non-denominational church and her daughter goes sometimes.

In this situation the girl is pregnant what is the mother to do with her? Like does the girl stay in school  or does she have to take a break not to promote the idea of being pregnant at school? She can you know be embarrassed maybe. .

If the mother is single and working how can she help her daughter? Does she equally raise this child or does she have her daughter to put in adoption? Which seems to be better to do?

Doe this girl need to go to classes to learn to have a baby especially at her age?

How can this girl keep being educated without being out of school too much? 

As far as the 16 year old boy what should happen to him?. How much responsibility will be on his part?. Is he supposed to in anyway or his parents support this girls child or there is no law of that age to do so? 

Try your best to answer on this one. Because as a male not thinking like a girl. I don't have many answers. I get this feeling girls may know more on this one. Except those men that are doogie houser doctor type thinking. If you have not seen this show on tv. He is a ten year old kid that works at a real hospital.


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What Does She Do?
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Re: What Does She Do?
« Reply #1 on: Tue Jun 04, 2019 - 08:38:01 »
Since this scenario is hypothetical, let's suppose another hypothetical where this much thought is placed in teaching youth that sex is first and foremost for the act of procreation, secondly it is to be assumed by those that can be responsible to the first. It's really very disturbing that our youth is taught that "sex is something beautiful that we should all embrace, the consequences can be dealt with later".

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Re: What Does She Do?
« Reply #2 on: Tue Jun 04, 2019 - 10:46:10 »
It's a very messy situation that will leave life-long scars no matter which options are taken.

I would think twice about forcing the girl to put the baby up for adoption if she's opposed to it, and here's why-  I knew a young girl who got pregnant, and against her will, her family forced her to give up her baby. MUCH wailing and gnashing of teeth on this young girl's part! So you know what this girl did after she was forced to give up her baby? She went out and got pregnant again and ran away from home - saying no one will take that baby from her. Her life has continued to spiral out of control. The last I heard, her life is a wreck - years later.  IDK if forcing her to give up her baby against her will triggered all this or not, but it sure seemed to have a very negative impact on her and possibly made matters worse.

I know of another family who went through the same thing. Their young daughter got pregnant. She delivered the baby and the whole family helped her raise the child. The bio dad was virtually out of the picture (a 10th grader) and the girl's family preferred him being out of the picture. It worked out well, but she had a large circle of support from family to help her. It wasn't easy for them at all, but it did work out in the end.


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« Reply #2 on: Tue Jun 04, 2019 - 10:46:10 »