Well then here we go
its not against flesh or blood so even if you want revenge, because someone upset you, then think again. Never raise your sword against flesh, dont cut of there ears in anger so to speak. Its really against the spirit realm that is hindering our desire to be with the Lord . We fight for the realm around us and in that , we also have to hold it. If you are offended by someone then you have to release forgiveness, there is no choice in this. So the first battle is taking all your weakness and all your offenses and sitting with them in the presence of the Lord until they have no dominion over you. So there is nothing in you that wants to bite back. You destroy there power this way. Dont gossip about people as well. Repentance is the starting ground that we learn how to disarm , that what would want to keep us bound. once you have done this, and in doing this, you will shed tears for those who are against you in the flesh as you grow closer to the heart of God. Only then once you have started to understand this is the way of the kingdom will you start to govern outside of your soul. He dosent give power to those who would abuse it. We all get tired , think of it like going to the spiritual gym. The desciples fell asleep in the garden.
Ask of the Lord for the armour to endure what you are going through and the sword that is needed to disarm it. Ask him Lord teach me the ways of your kingdom , give me understanding on how it works. Over time he will little bit by bit.
Thus is how you dismantle the spirit realm so that only his kingdom remains. Dont go rushing into every area of your life because there is going to be a war. one at a time.
enter into prayer worship and get so into the kingdom ,,because that is what we should be doing anyway...then once you are there then start to just recall that rubbish and enter that space because now you are filled up,with the annointing that breaks the yoke. If the Lord has given you a word for it, then speak it under the annointing. Then dont stay there for long when its still yuck, but go back to where you was in worship and prayer. Rinse repeat rinse repeat until that kingdom has become the kingdom of the Lord. Bring heaven to earth. Its how we wage warfare . In the power of his might. You will know tis has happened because when you recall it or re visit it , the only thing there will now be him. His love joy peace etc.
if you dont feel his kingdom or his presence then we must stop there because that is your first battle you must win.
The reason why we get tired is because we are in a battle....the key is to escape it by being in his presence...yes pray more, worship more and repent more. Release blessing more. The Lord wants us to take dominion , tend the garden.
I will pray for you as others are.