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Offline patman

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Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« on: June 20, 2008, 05:02:21 PM »
What would everyone say to a married couple using toys in the marriage bedroom.  Yea or Nea.  Also please site scripture reference for you opinion?

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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #1 on: June 20, 2008, 05:07:44 PM »
I don't have a scriptural reference.  I doubt one would find any before batteries were invented.  There would not be a market for them if they did not work.  They might serve as an aid.  I would hate to be shunned for latex!

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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #2 on: June 20, 2008, 06:36:04 PM »
What would everyone say to a married couple using toys in the marriage bedroom.  Yea or Nea.  Also please site scripture reference for you opinion?

As far as I know, sex toys are not mentioned in the Bible. What married people agree to do together is their business in my opinion.
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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #3 on: June 22, 2008, 12:46:21 AM »
What would everyone say to a married couple using toys in the marriage bedroom.  Yea or Nea.  Also please site scripture reference for you opinion?

As far as I know, sex toys are not mentioned in the Bible. What married people agree to do together is their business in my opinion.


It may be the married people's business to play these kinds of games but wouldn't it also be God's business?...if God agreed that a married couple would use toys to show their love to their spouse, maybe would He have supplied such toys in the beginning!...

I would much rather love and be loved by my husband in a natural way than use artificial stuff...this may not be worth much, but it is my opinion... ::pondering::

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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #4 on: June 22, 2008, 03:03:53 PM »
Didn't I say "in my opinion"? I also recognize the fact that I could be wrong about most anything--unless it can proved one way or the other with scripture, but then we don't all see the same thing in any scripture do we?
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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #5 on: June 22, 2008, 03:09:29 PM »
Actually, toy's have been around almost as long as sex itself. 

That being said, what a married couple does in the confines of the marriage bed is their business.

As for scripture reference hmmm.
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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #6 on: June 23, 2008, 12:38:35 AM »
That is really, rather funny that you would want scripture reference about using sex toys.

jb, love the "hmmm"


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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #7 on: June 23, 2008, 12:48:12 AM »
That being said, what a married couple does in the confines of the marriage bed is their business.

Are you saying that it is not also God's business?

Furthermore, would you say that there are any restrictions to what a married couple can or cannot do in the "confines of the marriage bed"? If so, what might they be? And, if so, how is it then just "their business"?

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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #8 on: June 23, 2008, 01:47:20 AM »
Good points    I mean the scripture says to avoid sexual immorality     but what is the list   

The Do's and don'ts

 ::eatingpopcorn:

who would be so brave to give that a go       

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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #9 on: June 23, 2008, 06:45:34 AM »
Biblically Speaking, 
What constitutes sexual immorality?

And in what way does the use of toys violate such?

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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #10 on: June 23, 2008, 07:49:52 AM »
Biblically Speaking, 
What constitutes sexual immorality?
And in what way does the use of toys violate such?


Here is an article I found very interesting about sex within a Christian marriage. I feel that if it is not offensive to God or your wife/husband, then it is OK....

Mac, I removed your link accidentally.  It was a moderator error.  If you get a chance to restore your link, please do so.

Here it is again....

http://jscms.jrn.columbia.edu/cns/2006-04-04/chan-christiansextoys
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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #11 on: June 23, 2008, 07:57:20 AM »
Good points    I mean the scripture says to avoid sexual immorality     but what is the list   

The Do's and don'ts

 ::eatingpopcorn:

who would be so brave to give that a go       


Everyone has their own opinions on that, but many choose to try to make their opinion equal with scripture. I have personal convictions against some things that are not mentioned in the Bible as good or bad, but I don't try to force them on others.

God said that the marriage bed is undefiled, and He didn't say "Unless you use sex toys." If anyone feels that they are sinful, then don't use them, but you cannot prove that they ARE sinful.

If I truly believed that drinking milk was sinful, then I would be sinning if I drank it because I believed it to be sin. However, that doesn't make it sin for everyone. I might not be sinning in God's eyes, but I would be sinning in my own. However, I'm not weaned yet and LOVE milk.  rofl
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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #12 on: June 23, 2008, 08:07:02 AM »

If I truly believed that drinking milk was sinful, then I would be sinning if I drank it because I believed it to be sin. However, that doesn't make it sin for everyone. I might not be sinning in God's eyes, but I would be sinning in my own. However, I'm not weaned yet and LOVE milk.  rofl

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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #13 on: June 23, 2008, 08:08:40 AM »
Good points    I mean the scripture says to avoid sexual immorality     but what is the list   

The Do's and don'ts

 ::eatingpopcorn:

who would be so brave to give that a go       


Everyone has their own opinions on that, but many choose to try to make their opinion equal with scripture. I have personal convictions against some things that are not mentioned in the Bible as good or bad, but I don't try to force them on others.

God said that the marriage bed is undefiled, and He didn't say "Unless you use sex toys." If anyone feels that they are sinful, then don't use them, but you cannot prove that they ARE sinful.

If I truly believed that drinking milk was sinful, then I would be sinning if I drank it because I believed it to be sin. However, that doesn't make it sin for everyone. I might not be sinning in God's eyes, but I would be sinning in my own. However, I'm not weaned yet and LOVE milk.  rofl

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Re: Are toys allowed in the marriage bedroom?
« Reply #14 on: June 23, 2008, 08:11:18 AM »
Jon-Marc  a milkaholic      I would have never quessed   rofl