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Guess Mark was having fun doin' a little trollin' around.

Which one of us was Mark???  I'm confused, what with all the costumes and everything... 
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Guess Mark was having fun doin' a little trollin' around.

Which one of us was Mark???  I'm confused, what with all the costumes and everything... 

Mark is a male poster in this thread that I know from another board.

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Re: Can a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?
« Reply #77 on: August 01, 2009, 03:51:33 PM »
Guess Mark was having fun doin' a little trollin' around.

Which one of us was Mark???  I'm confused, what with all the costumes and everything... 


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Re: Can a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?
« Reply #78 on: August 19, 2009, 02:02:20 PM »
It seems to be that you are just trying to find ways to spice up your love life.  Instead of watching a video, why don't you both try making one?  Role playing can be fun as well.  You can buy love games with "to do" cards as well ie: kiss here, touch there... have fun with each other.

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Re: Can a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?
« Reply #79 on: August 19, 2009, 04:12:51 PM »
"one of those movies"?  Do you mean like Alien vs Predator?

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Re: Can a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?
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Re: Can a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?
« Reply #80 on: August 19, 2009, 06:49:50 PM »
It seems to be that you are just trying to find ways to spice up your love life.  Instead of watching a video, why don't you both try making one?  Role playing can be fun as well.  You can buy love games with "to do" cards as well ie: kiss here, touch there... have fun with each other.


 Well if you do go for it, and be kinky winky, be very, very, very careful. My friend Charlotte, borrowed what she thought was a taped movie from her sister Stacy. Charlotte took the tape to in laws, her MIL, FIL, SIL, BIL and her husband going to watch put the movie in the VCR. All He double hockey sticks broke loose It was a tape of her sister Stacy, and husband involved in a form of sex to graphic to mention ::blushing:: I am sorry, but that is what happened. Stacy gave Charlotte the wrong VHS. Then it got stuck in VCR.  ::eatingpopcorn: ::eatingpopcorn: ::eatingpopcorn: I would have been mortified.
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Re: Can a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?
« Reply #81 on: August 20, 2009, 05:07:30 AM »
It seems to be that you are just trying to find ways to spice up your love life.  Instead of watching a video, why don't you both try making one?  Role playing can be fun as well.  You can buy love games with "to do" cards as well ie: kiss here, touch there... have fun with each other.


  WOOOOOOPS  Sounds like a story that happened here in the Uk where a teacher made each of the children who were leaving her class at school a vcr with all sorts of end of term things on it. Trouble was that half way through the film, she and her boyfriend suddenly appeared doing some rather sexual things. Obviously this was a terrible mistake and I think she managed to stop it before more than one of two had seen it.
Moral is..........if you have to make a film, dont put it with all the other films.


 Well if you do go for it, and be kinky winky, be very, very, very careful. My friend Charlotte, borrowed what she thought was a taped movie from her sister Stacy. Charlotte took the tape to in laws, her MIL, FIL, SIL, BIL and her husband going to watch put the movie in the VCR. All He double hockey sticks broke loose It was a tape of her sister Stacy, and husband involved in a form of sex to graphic to mention ::blushing:: I am sorry, but that is what happened. Stacy gave Charlotte the wrong VHS. Then it got stuck in VCR.  ::eatingpopcorn: ::eatingpopcorn: ::eatingpopcorn: I would have been mortified.
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Re: Can a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?
« Reply #82 on: August 25, 2009, 08:45:56 PM »
 Yes, Chosen One, I agree, put the at the top of the closet. ::doh:: The teacher, you know how embarrassing the teacher must, have been. LOL here is my ( according to Blah), they should have not have been having relations without being married.
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Re: Can a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?
« Reply #83 on: August 25, 2009, 09:04:16 PM »
The answer to the OP is simple: No.

If I need to explain this....well, I guess I'll explain it.
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Re: Can a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?
« Reply #84 on: August 26, 2009, 09:17:09 PM »
The answer to the OP is simple: No.

If I need to explain this....well, I guess I'll explain it.


 No, No, H, we get it. Please, Please, do not explain.
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Re: Can a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?
« Reply #85 on: September 12, 2009, 03:22:35 PM »
It seems to be that you are just trying to find ways to spice up your love life.  Instead of watching a video, why don't you both try making one?  Role playing can be fun as well.  You can buy love games with "to do" cards as well ie: kiss here, touch there... have fun with each other.


 Well if you do go for it, and be kinky winky, be very, very, very careful. My friend Charlotte, borrowed what she thought was a taped movie from her sister Stacy. Charlotte took the tape to in laws, her MIL, FIL, SIL, BIL and her husband going to watch put the movie in the VCR. All He double hockey sticks broke loose It was a tape of her sister Stacy, and husband involved in a form of sex to graphic to mention ::blushing:: I am sorry, but that is what happened. Stacy gave Charlotte the wrong VHS. Then it got stuck in VCR.  ::eatingpopcorn: ::eatingpopcorn: ::eatingpopcorn: I would have been mortified.



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Re: Can a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?
« Reply #86 on: September 12, 2009, 03:38:59 PM »
CAN a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?  Sure.  Feel free.

SHOULD a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?  NO! Of course not.  Nor should anyone else. 
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Re: Can a married couple watch "one of those movies" for mood enhancement?
« Reply #87 on: September 13, 2009, 11:43:56 AM »
I dont see watching porn any different than hiring prostitutes to come to your house and have sex in front of you to turn you on.They are being paid to have sex which is the defintion of prostition.

How about amatuer?..I dont see that as any different than thinking its o.k to invite your neighbors over to have sex in front of you to get you turned on.

The OP was talking about 'mood enhancement" not learning new techniques.Mood enhancement is a fancy way of saying "make me horny".

Thats not even to get inot the sex "workers" INHUMANE "working" conditions and the emotional and physical damage many of them endure.They are treated like cattle.And a large majority them are chilhood abuse and neglect victims and thats how they fell into the industry.Its a disgrace.

I think it would be BEYOND insulting if my husband told me now he 'needed' or "wanted" to watch other people havign sex as a form of foreplay to get him aroused to have sex with me I would spit in his face and tell him to go have sex with his hand.


And if "technique" is a goal?...Dude its not that hard to figure out.You explore and try different things and see what you both like and are comfortable with.If you have no imagination?Read a book on sexual technique.Or ask a buddy who is willing to share.But the best way and the only way to know what each other likes is to experiment with each other.

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