It seems to be that you are just trying to find ways to spice up your love life. Instead of watching a video, why don't you both try making one? Role playing can be fun as well. You can buy love games with "to do" cards as well ie: kiss here, touch there... have fun with each other.
Well if you do go for it, and be kinky winky, be very, very, very careful. My friend Charlotte, borrowed what she thought was a taped movie from her sister Stacy. Charlotte took the tape to in laws, her MIL, FIL, SIL, BIL and her husband going to watch put the movie in the VCR. All He double hockey sticks broke loose It was a tape of her sister Stacy, and husband involved in a form of sex to graphic to mention
I am sorry, but that is what happened. Stacy gave Charlotte the wrong VHS. Then it got stuck in VCR.
I would have been mortified.