The Bible says that it is "Better to marry than to burn"
The text has to do, of course, with the sexual needs of a man or woman.
I'm curious how many men out there are, like myself, married...but still burning.
I think my wife would tell you I am a thoughtful husband. I buy her gifts, help around the house, work long hours so that she can be home with the kids, plan special trips, etc. I love her. But she has never had a "sex drive." Never. We were not active before marriage. It wasn't until after we were married that I discovered, and my wife admits, she really has no "physical" attraction to men. She cannot have an orgasm, never has, and once saw a specialist about this. They couldn't help.
For these reasons sex just has no interest to her. She knows I need it, but frankly it is not high on her priority list. I feel guilty - terribly guilty - about initiating romance since it really does nothing for her.
At this point I have just resigned to accept this as God's will. It is hard, and I struggle with things like lust and burning.
But I am just curious if there are others out there, men or women, who can sympathise with this situation. Or maybe have a similar trial. Of course, if someone had any advice, I would not mind it. But frankly I have come to grips with the fact that this is how things are.