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« Reply #60 on: November 04, 2008, 12:05:48 PM »

Now that makes sense to me, Sherman!  Thanks!  I guess I was thinking title=prestige, not exactly keeping in line with the modest, submissive roles of women.  I'm still kind of wondering if "elder" would be an appropriate title.  Maybe "deaconess"?

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I'm glad that helped some.  I do believe though that any title appropriate for a man is also appropriate for a woman.  The word elder actually refers to one who is older and in the Greek is used for both men and women.  I think we differ concerning "submissive"; I believe we should all be "submissive" to one another and provide servant leadership as we're able to.  We're family, we have fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, sons and daughters.  Elders would be fathers and mothers, even grandparents in Christ.  All this arging people do over leadership roles comes from thinking of the Church as an Organization, instead of as a Family!  I suppose for churches that are just social organizations, people worrying about titles and roles is a big deal; but in a family they are not.

BTW, in my family, my wife and I are equal seeking to serve oneanother and provide servant leadership based on our talents, gifts, and availabilty.  I believe an egalitarian model of family is the divine ideal as established in Eden, what God intended and intends for us.  Patriarchy, man ruling over woman is a fruit of sin, actually a curse upon humanity.  This curse effects not only the family, but all of society (religious and civil).

Anyhow, may your church be Family with fathers, mothers, and even grandparents, all serving, respecting, and loving one another as Christ loves us!

Sherman, I missed most of this thread so forgive me if I ask something that's already been asked.  But is GALATIANS all we have to go on that would make Paul's letters about women's roles different?
Actually there are several scriptures that are misinterpreted to imply that men should rule over women, in the family, society, and the church.  Thankfully though, God is breaking through to bring equality to the forefront.
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« Reply #61 on: November 04, 2008, 12:21:47 PM »

Sherman,

We may not agree on everything but we are in 100% agreement here.  You have an additional manna for your comments. 
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My marriage is also based on an egalitarian concept.  It has been since the day we said "I do" and that was directly contrary to the complimentarian (just a weakened patriarchal and sinfull concept!) view that was being taught as the Christian marriage in the church we were married in.  We will make 35 years in Feb, Lord willng, and keep on pushing toward that 50 mark!  I know for a fact that a number of those in that congregation who practiced what was being taught are no longer married while most of those who maintained a more egalitarian marriage principle are still together!  Interesting, huh!

Not suprising! The church, rather than embracing the equality that we have in Christ, has continued to operate and promote the worldly patriarichal model of family and church.  Thankfully though, God is revealing to many Christians the truth of the divine ideal for family - the egalitarian model.  If the church will embrace this radically, teaching couples how to be equal partners instead of masters & servants, then the divorce rate in the church will go down radically while the world's divorce rate continues to climb.  And rather than toughing out bad marriages, we'll be empowering couples to have happy healthy marriages based on mutual respect and love!

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Much of the problem we have in the modern church can be directly linked, IMO, to an attitude that became strong and pushed apx 1850 years ago when the male side of the church that existed in the gentile churches began pushing women out of leadership in a very deliberate move to take control and make the church coincide to the customs of females being in full subjection to men both in the church and outside the church.  Then, as the English Bible was released, the translation was held to a male based translation on purpose to maintain the status quo.  We now know from indepth study in the last 30 years that this particular type of translation was not correct and that there was more to Paul's letters to Timothy than just a straight simple translation yields!  However, I do not believe we will see Bible publishers make the corrections in the near future due to the "maximized profit" or "don't make changes however correct they are if they will lower the profit ratios of the company's product!"

Bible translation is much more difficult than what most people want to admit.  Shoot, many people misunderstand my posts though we share the fact that English is our mother tongue.  As the church matures though, I believe the translations will get better, I pray.

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When we finally realize that servant leadership is the only model of leadership acceptable to God, then maybe we will see positive growth, marriages that last, and churches based in the Gal 3:26-28 concept where all gifts are utilized, regardless of who you are.

Amen!
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« Reply #62 on: November 04, 2008, 02:38:13 PM »

Now that makes sense to me, Sherman!  Thanks!  I guess I was thinking title=prestige, not exactly keeping in line with the modest, submissive roles of women.  I'm still kind of wondering if "elder" would be an appropriate title.  Maybe "deaconess"?

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I'm glad that helped some.  I do believe though that any title appropriate for a man is also appropriate for a woman.  The word elder actually refers to one who is older and in the Greek is used for both men and women.  I think we differ concerning "submissive"; I believe we should all be "submissive" to one another and provide servant leadership as we're able to.  We're family, we have fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, sons and daughters.  Elders would be fathers and mothers, even grandparents in Christ.  All this arging people do over leadership roles comes from thinking of the Church as an Organization, instead of as a Family!  I suppose for churches that are just social organizations, people worrying about titles and roles is a big deal; but in a family they are not.

BTW, in my family, my wife and I are equal seeking to serve oneanother and provide servant leadership based on our talents, gifts, and availabilty.  I believe an egalitarian model of family is the divine ideal as established in Eden, what God intended and intends for us.  Patriarchy, man ruling over woman is a fruit of sin, actually a curse upon humanity.  This curse effects not only the family, but all of society (religious and civil).

Anyhow, may your church be Family with fathers, mothers, and even grandparents, all serving, respecting, and loving one another as Christ loves us!

Sherman, I missed most of this thread so forgive me if I ask something that's already been asked.  But is GALATIANS all we have to go on that would make Paul's letters about women's roles different?
Actually there are several scriptures that are misinterpreted to imply that men should rule over women, in the family, society, and the church.  Thankfully though, God is breaking through to bring equality to the forefront.

Yes, I would like to understand them.
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« Reply #63 on: November 05, 2008, 07:47:24 AM »

Hey Bonnie,

For me the place to start is Genesis 1.  In the beginning God created humanity in His own image, male and female created He them and gave them dominion over the fish, birds, and living creatures of earth. Gen. 1:27-30

So the first thing we need to realize is that both men and women were created in the image of God, not just men.  Women are not inferior in any way, but equal with man, both made in the image of God and thus worthy of honor.

Furthermore, when looking at Eden, many theologians, including myself, not only see Eden as God's creative act, but the Divine Ideal, what God wants for humanity, not just what we've lost, but what we should strive towards, and what we are restored to in and through Christ! Anything less than this Divine Ideal is the result of sin.

BTW, as Americans, our nation is founded upon the principle that all men, as in humanity, are created equal.  The Declaration of Independance states, "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness." 

This statement is the foundational principle that is working in our nation to bring about equality of the races and genders, and it's based upon Gen. 1:27.
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« Reply #64 on: November 05, 2008, 09:10:48 AM »

Hey Bonnie,

For me the place to start is Genesis 1.  In the beginning God created humanity in His own image, male and female created He them and gave them dominion over the fish, birds, and living creatures of earth. Gen. 1:27-30

So the first thing we need to realize is that both men and women were created in the image of God, not just men.  Women are not inferior in any way, but equal with man, both made in the image of God and thus worthy of honor.

Furthermore, when looking at Eden, many theologians, including myself, not only see Eden as God's creative act, but the Divine Ideal, what God wants for humanity, not just what we've lost, but what we should strive towards, and what we are restored to in and through Christ! Anything less than this Divine Ideal is the result of sin.

BTW, as Americans, our nation is founded upon the principle that all men, as in humanity, are created equal.  The Declaration of Independance states, "We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness." 

This statement is the foundational principle that is working in our nation to bring about equality of the races and genders, and it's based upon Gen. 1:27.

Thanks, Sherman, for the reply.  I always value your opinions and I will study on this a bit.
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« Reply #65 on: November 05, 2008, 12:17:07 PM »

Bonnie,

The next scripture that I'd meditate on is the Fall in Gen. 3.  Note that the devil is cursed because of his deception, and the ground is cursed because of man's sin.  The fruit of sin for humanity was death - spiritual separation from God.  The specific results of sin for the woman are in vs. 16.
1.  Increased pain in childbearing
2.  Undue negative desire for her husband
3.  Male dominance - "he will rule over you.'"

The divine ideal is that men and women should be equal with both ruling over creation.  However, due to sin men rule over women.  Patriarchy is a result, fruit of sin.  Should we promote the fruit of sin, or do what we can to lessen it and mitigate the oppression of women? 

A good point to think through is the second point, a woman having a desire for her husband.  In context, this is a negative result of sin.  What is this speaking of?  I believe it reflects a common emotional problem of women desiring a relationship with men to such a great degree that they are often willing to put up with abuse and oppression, the man "ruling" over her. 
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« Reply #66 on: November 05, 2008, 12:25:00 PM »

I simply wonder why an omniscient God wouldn't have just plainly said something about women elders (and a multitude of other "issues") 

Or at least a plainly stated:  "The day is coming when what I said now in scripture will have to be interpreted to match what I ultimately meant it to mean"
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« Reply #67 on: November 05, 2008, 12:29:02 PM »

I simply wonder why an omniscient God wouldn't have just plainly said something about women elders (and a multitude of other "issues") 

Or at least a plainly stated:  "The day is coming when what I said now in scripture will have to be interpreted to match what I ultimately meant it to mean"

I believe God was pretty plain in 1 Tim. 3 which is consistent with the entire OT and NT.  I believe one has to use Gal. 3:27 as a trump verse to make the egalitarian argument.
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« Reply #68 on: November 05, 2008, 03:50:11 PM »

I simply wonder why an omniscient God wouldn't have just plainly said something about women elders (and a multitude of other "issues") 

Or at least a plainly stated:  "The day is coming when what I said now in scripture will have to be interpreted to match what I ultimately meant it to mean"

This is what I ask folks about the "pattern"  The NT is not written as  a rule book or pattern like the OT.  Is is a simple story of God coming to redeem man and our relationship to Him.
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« Reply #69 on: November 05, 2008, 04:53:14 PM »

I simply wonder why an omniscient God wouldn't have just plainly said something about women elders (and a multitude of other "issues") 

Or at least a plainly stated:  "The day is coming when what I said now in scripture will have to be interpreted to match what I ultimately meant it to mean"
This is what I ask folks about the "pattern"  The NT is not written as  a rule book or pattern like the OT.  Is is a simple story of God coming to redeem man and our relationship to Him.
I appreciate what you're getting at John.  The OT had Leviticus and Deuteronomy, but the NT has no corresponding Law books.  Much of the NT is Descriptive and not necessarily Prescriptive.  For example, much of the NT presumes male dominance in the family and in the church and speaks from that perspective - Descriptive; but does that mean that such passages indicate that such is the way things should be - Prescriptive?  I don't believe so.  Rather, it tends to Christianize such male dominance encouraging males to not be oppressive, and females to not be rebellious, speaking to the current order of things and not seeking to change the current order. 

On the other hand, there is significant evidence that women were accepted as leaders in the church, though such was certainly not the norm due to the culture being so male dominated.  Phillip's daughters prophecied.  Junias was considered a great apostle.  The first evangelist was a woman.  Paul encouraged his readers to honor and respect specific women he named who served with him in the ministry. etc.

I suppose the reason so many people quote Gal.3:28 is because it so well expresses what they, we, see in scripture elsewhere.  We are all one in Christ, children of God, heirs of his righteousness. 

Gal.3:26-29
"You are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham's seed, and heirs according to the promise." 
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« Reply #70 on: November 05, 2008, 04:56:28 PM »

Bonnie,

The next scripture that I'd meditate on is the Fall in Gen. 3.  Note that the devil is cursed because of his deception, and the ground is cursed because of man's sin.  The fruit of sin for humanity was death - spiritual separation from God.  The specific results of sin for the woman are in vs. 16.
1.  Increased pain in childbearing
2.  Undue negative desire for her husband
3.  Male dominance - "he will rule over you.'"

The divine ideal is that men and women should be equal with both ruling over creation.  However, due to sin men rule over women.  Patriarchy is a result, fruit of sin.  Should we promote the fruit of sin, or do what we can to lessen it and mitigate the oppression of women? 

A good point to think through is the second point, a woman having a desire for her husband.  In context, this is a negative result of sin.  What is this speaking of?  I believe it reflects a common emotional problem of women desiring a relationship with men to such a great degree that they are often willing to put up with abuse and oppression, the man "ruling" over her. 

We know that was never the Lord's wish that men oppress women in any way.  If we all lived according to what God wants... well we would be a lot less troubled.

God loves us equally, I'm sure of that.  He tells husbands to love their wives as they do their own bodies. 
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« Reply #71 on: November 05, 2008, 08:23:21 PM »

Is it Biblical?

Of course not...women don't age past 39 (or so I've been told).


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« Reply #72 on: November 05, 2008, 09:25:15 PM »

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« Reply #73 on: November 05, 2008, 09:29:31 PM »

Is it Biblical?

Of course not...women don't age past 39 (or so I've been told).


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39 was several years past the average life expectency for the first century so that would not disqualify them even if it was the 21st time they were 39.  Rolling on floor laughing
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« Reply #74 on: November 06, 2008, 06:47:24 AM »

What's up, HeHealedMe?  I have noticed you have posted this response in many of the threads today?  Are you ok?

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