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« Reply #90 on: November 07, 2008, 09:16:12 PM »

I did listen and it would be more to my liking for women to have as much authority as men do in the church.  I didn't see anything convincing enough to have that happen.  If there is doubt and confusion and no real Biblical doctrine to back it up wouldn't it be better to be safe than sorry?
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« Reply #91 on: November 07, 2008, 11:45:58 PM »


"Church Norris?"  That would be Walker, Texas Pastor.  My opinion on women elders is found in 1 Tim. 3, and I believe that passage is not trumped by Gal. 3:28.
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I agree...Galatians 3:28 does NOT trump I Tim 3......It says that men and women should minister, to demonstrate the fruits of the spirit.....That is not making them Elders or Pastors in a church..Just demonstrating what God has done in their life
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« Reply #92 on: November 08, 2008, 08:01:28 AM »

I think Galatians 3 is speaking of an entirely different thing.  It's the promises God made to Abraham that his seed would come from every nation, kindred and tongue.  That has become a reality through and by Jesus.  God loves and forgives all without prejudice who come to Him.
Somebody else could probably explain what I'm trying to say much better but if you study the whole chapter it makes more sense.
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« Reply #93 on: November 08, 2008, 08:05:39 AM »

1 Timothy 3:1-2
“This is a true saying, If a man (ei tis) desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good
work. A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good
behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;”
ei tis (i tis); if any Strong’s Greek-Hebrew Dictionary, Strong’s 1536.
ei tis- whoever, whatever, Thayer’s Definitions 1536.
The original does not say “man” at all but instructs,
“If any desire the office of a bishop, (he/she) desires a good work....”
Paul knew the Greek language. He would not have used a word that can mean either
man or woman if he had intended to limit overseers to males only! If Paul had intended a
male ministry he would have used the all male word, “aner” 435 in this text. Paul did
not just slip up in this scripture. In all his admonitions concerning the ministry he uses
words that include both sexes! Yet translators were bound by their own traditional
ideas and translated with male words not found in the original! Just as their hatred of the
Sabbath caused the translation of “sabbatismos” 4520, in Hebrews 4:9 to become “rest”
instead of the correct translation, “Sabbath rest.” In both cases they knew better.
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The word “he” is not in the original text above, it is inferred from the verb used in the
third person, he/she/it. (I is first person, you is second person, and he/she/it is third
person.) This verb form can include both male and female. The original Greek is not
limited to the male gender.
The translators added maleness to this scripture also.
1 Timothy 3:5
“For if a man (tis) know not how to rule his own house, how shall
he take care of the church of God?”
tis “an enclitic indefinite pronoun; some or any person or object:” Strong’s 5100
It should be, “For if anyone know not how to rule...”
Also, “his” and “he” were not in the original text, but indicate third person (he/she/it).

Should we use common sense translation of tis to mean one/anyone/any or should we use a traditional but stressed translation of the Greek tis to mean specificall any man or a man?  True and accurate translation (eg:  baptism: a transliteration into English rather than a true translation meaning "immersion" which most of us accept it to mean but just live with the present day politics of translation!) is to be desired to accurately understand God's words to us through inspired writers such as Paul.  If we can't get that accuracy, how can we ever correctly understand what is actually being said?

The most accurate translation of 1 Tim 3 says if one desires or anyone desires.  Translating it naturally as it was used by Paul without the stress of making it into something it is not (meaning a male only gender translation) brings this verse into agreement with other passages and cures some of the conflicts in translation that more and more people are seeing.
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« Reply #94 on: November 08, 2008, 02:01:08 PM »

Wiley said

"He would not have used a word that can mean either
man or woman if he had intended to limit overseers to males only! If Paul had intended a
male ministry he would have used the all male word, “aner” 435 in this text."



If anyone gets a woman pregnant they should take full responsibility.....
If someone grows a very long beard they should keep it well groomed.....
If they had known they had testicular cancer sooner.....
I knew someone that after giving birth to 6 kids decided to get their tubes tied.....
All four of my kids played college football for Notre Dame.....


In all 5 instances above it easy to tell which sex I am talking about, due to the activity they are involved in. It is the same with Paul's teaching. He clearly says a husband of one wife, and since homosexuality is also clearly taught against it is Only a man that could be the subject of which he is speaking of in this context. Beyond that if He was saying a woman could be an elder then he would be contradicting his own teachings throughout his other epistles.

I believe that the Bible is the perfect and infallible Word of God and cannot contradict itself in any way. If Paul was teaching this, it would contradict his other teachings of the roles of men and women and their roles toward each other and Christ. It has nothing to do with superiority or men being more important or women getting the short end of the stick. We must stay within the roles that God has made for us, it is not our right to decide to change the roles that have clearly been taught in the Bible.


Eph 5:22-24

22.  Wives, be in subjection unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23.  For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the church, being himself the savior of the body.  24.  But as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their husbands in everything.


God Bless



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« Reply #95 on: November 08, 2008, 02:25:04 PM »

Wiley said

"He would not have used a word that can mean either
man or woman if he had intended to limit overseers to males only! If Paul had intended a
male ministry he would have used the all male word, “aner” 435 in this text."



If anyone gets a woman pregnant they should take full responsibility.....
If someone grows a very long beard they should keep it well groomed.....
If they had known they had testicular cancer sooner.....
I knew someone that after giving birth to 6 kids decided to get their tubes tied.....
All four of my kids played college football for Notre Dame.....


In all 5 instances above it easy to tell which sex I am talking about, due to the activity they are involved in. It is the same with Paul's teaching. He clearly says a husband of one wife, and since homosexuality is also clearly taught against it is Only a man that could be the subject of which he is speaking of in this context. Beyond that if He was saying a woman could be an elder then he would be contradicting his own teachings throughout his other epistles.

I believe that the Bible is the perfect and infallible Word of God and cannot contradict itself in any way. If Paul was teaching this, it would contradict his other teachings of the roles of men and women and their roles toward each other and Christ. It has nothing to do with superiority or men being more important or women getting the short end of the stick. We must stay within the roles that God has made for us, it is not our right to decide to change the roles that have clearly been taught in the Bible.


Eph 5:22-24

22.  Wives, be in subjection unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. 23.  For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the church, being himself the savior of the body.  24.  But as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their husbands in everything.


God Bless





I had thought a long these lines also.  God does not like gender roles confused.  Women are told not to wear men's clothing.  I wonder if that is exactly what that means or is it symbolic?
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« Reply #96 on: November 08, 2008, 03:04:33 PM »

Wiley
Excellent thoughts.  It just seems so difficult for many to look at the good news as anything other than a new rule  book.  IMO that completley misses the message.

Grace

The passage is in a way symbolic.  God was not telling women not to wear pants as some contend but rather is speaking of men trying to look like a woman and men trying to look like a man.  Cross dressing if you will.
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« Reply #97 on: November 09, 2008, 12:54:51 AM »

Wiley
Excellent thoughts.  It just seems so difficult for many to look at the good news as anything other than a new rule  book.  IMO that completley misses the message.

Grace

The passage is in a way symbolic.  God was not telling women not to wear pants as some contend but rather is speaking of men trying to look like a woman and men trying to look like a man.  Cross dressing if you will.
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To accept Christ do we not have to adhere to His Word, or do we only have to say I believe but tell Jesus We dont really want his rules? I have always understood this as part of the package. When we accept Christ we also accept what He has laid out for us to follow. His plan for the way we should live,, I thought that was the whole point, to die to our flesh and fleshly desires and submit to His will for our life through Him and yes His rules.

God Bless
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« Reply #98 on: November 09, 2008, 02:06:21 AM »

Bonnie said:

I had thought a long these lines also.  God does not like gender roles confused.  Women are told not to wear men's clothing.  I wonder if that is exactly what that means or is it symbolic?


I truly believe that Duet 22:5, is still very important in our lives today. I agree with you completely, God wants the Gender roles separate for His reasons. I believe one reason is because we as men and women parallel Christ and the Church and we should honor that in everyway we can. Women are to be feminine and beautiful in their differences from man. I believe that we should do everything in our power to please God and if that is something that makes us uncomfortable or makes us stand out from the norm of todays cultural filth then that is all the better in my opinion. There are to many so-called christian churches today that are ordaining homosexuals and women to be pastors. It saddens me to see the Word of God being spit on by people that claim to know God and are really just leading the blind right off of a cliff. Sorry I got a little sidetracked. Smile

But my opinion is that it has a Literal and a Symbolic meaning.

God Bless you
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« Reply #99 on: November 09, 2008, 02:17:07 AM »

Flapjack...  You are a Marine?  My son is a Marine... my husband is Navy.  23+ years.

I have a question to the topic... WHY would a woman want to be an Elder?  No thanks... Knowing that we are equal sojourners in Christ is enough for me.  I have my covering...  it is the Blood of Jesus...  for that... I submit to Him.  No one in the Church has authority over me, unless I submit anyway... and I reserve that for my husband.  It's a choice.  "Submit yourselves" is what it says.

And just because a woman teaches, it does not mean she is in authority over a man. If he is walking with God, the spirit would witness to him if she is speaking truth and it would be GOD who is sending it to him, through her ... submission to that word, would be between he and GOD, the woman would only be speaking what God told her to any way. 

A man who says a woman can't teach... is foolish.  I teach all the time, I teach truth to ANYONE who will listen.  I have no authority to make them submit to it...  the Holy Spirit in us does that.  If you reject the truth and say .. "You can't teach me, you are a woman"...  Doh!

Please...  do you not know GOD?  He can use a fisherman to teach or even a donkey to complete his will...  hey, he can even use MEN!!   Preach it!

And that is good preachin, whether you say AMEN or not!    Blushing
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« Reply #100 on: November 09, 2008, 08:20:47 AM »

Bonnie said:

I had thought a long these lines also.  God does not like gender roles confused.  Women are told not to wear men's clothing.  I wonder if that is exactly what that means or is it symbolic?


I truly believe that Duet 22:5, is still very important in our lives today. I agree with you completely, God wants the Gender roles separate for His reasons. I believe one reason is because we as men and women parallel Christ and the Church and we should honor that in everyway we can. Women are to be feminine and beautiful in their differences from man. I believe that we should do everything in our power to please God and if that is something that makes us uncomfortable or makes us stand out from the norm of todays cultural filth then that is all the better in my opinion. There are to many so-called christian churches today that are ordaining homosexuals and women to be pastors. It saddens me to see the Word of God being spit on by people that claim to know God and are really just leading the blind right off of a cliff. Sorry I got a little sidetracked. Smile

But my opinion is that it has a Literal and a Symbolic meaning.

God Bless you

I agree, if it's not done for the Lord then why do it at all.
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« Reply #101 on: November 09, 2008, 09:48:55 AM »

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  God wants the Gender roles separate for His reasons. I believe one reason is because we as men and women parallel Christ and the Church and we should honor that in everyway we can. Women are to be feminine and beautiful in their differences from man.

I disagree.  When we are in Christ, there is no gender, race, or life status.  We all stand equal before Christ and because of Christ.

Regarding, women being in subjection to men (or husbands depending on particular translation of the NT).  For a really good article on that see Al Maxey's recent study.  All Christians are in subjection to each other.  If a man and a woman are married and both are Christians, then they are in subjection to each other and the husband rulling over the wife (wife in subjection) is strictly based on the historical, geographical location of where they live (eg:  Rome, Ephesus, Jerusalem, Washington DC, Dallas, Hong Kong, etc).  God made man and woman equal in the Garden.  That status changed because of sin.  God allow that change to remain in effect until the Cross when he brought everyone back into an equal state though his son's sacrifice and resurection.  There were female apostles in the early church.  There were elders/bishops (yes, there is evidence of that fact that has been discovered in recent years), there were female ministers/teachers/evangelists, and there were female "deacons."  That is a historical and biblical fact.

The main problem we have in understanding Scripture and how it was written is the hermeneutical principles we use to come to a conclussion.  If we try to understand it just from a black and white view (ink on paper from the 20th/21st Century vantage point) we run into alot of problems which cause misunderstandings and the extreme legalism that has been a major thorn in the side of church growth because of all the divisions it has caused.  If we use a historical view of understanding Scripture, then at least from our vantage point of 20 centuries down stream, we can kind of get an idea of what the writer was trying to convey.  We can also see where translation has been effected by traditions that have no business being included in the understanding of what was said.  Some of what Paul wrote is open to alot of interpretation because of these factors.  Gender is one of those interpretations.  As we learn more about the laws, customs, and problems of the time frame with the help of intense archaelogical research that has been a rather recent factor on the age scale, we can get better understanding of what was being addressed by Paul and why.

Got to go.   if I'm lucky, I'll be back in a couple of days to read replies.  If not:

May God continue to bless each and every poster here as they strive to understand God's revealed words to us.
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« Reply #102 on: November 09, 2008, 08:11:47 PM »

Flapjack...  You are a Marine?  My son is a Marine... my husband is Navy.  23+ years.

I have a question to the topic... WHY would a woman want to be an Elder?  No thanks... Knowing that we are equal sojourners in Christ is enough for me.  I have my covering...  it is the Blood of Jesus...  for that... I submit to Him.  No one in the Church has authority over me, unless I submit anyway... and I reserve that for my husband.  It's a choice.  "Submit yourselves" is what it says.

And just because a woman teaches, it does not mean she is in authority over a man. If he is walking with God, the spirit would witness to him if she is speaking truth and it would be GOD who is sending it to him, through her ... submission to that word, would be between he and GOD, the woman would only be speaking what God told her to any way. 

A man who says a woman can't teach... is foolish.  I teach all the time, I teach truth to ANYONE who will listen.  I have no authority to make them submit to it...  the Holy Spirit in us does that.  If you reject the truth and say .. "You can't teach me, you are a woman"...  Doh!

Please...  do you not know GOD?  He can use a fisherman to teach or even a donkey to complete his will...  hey, he can even use MEN!!   Preach it!

And that is good preachin, whether you say AMEN or not!    Blushing


Yes I am a Marine although I got out in 2001, I still think about re-enlisting.



Concerning women "preaching" I refer to 1 Tim 2:12-15

12.  But I do not allow a woman to teach or exercise authority over a man, but to remain quiet.  13.  For it was Adam who was first created, and then Eve.  14.  And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman being quite deceived, fell into transgression.

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« Reply #103 on: November 09, 2008, 10:15:17 PM »

You can't reinlist... there could be women over you in authority in the chain of command, and you don't believe in that.  Right?
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« Reply #104 on: November 10, 2008, 06:34:26 AM »

Flapjack said  (Off topic)

Yes I am a Marine although I got out in 2001, I still think about re-enlisting.



Do it!  I was out 11 1/2 years before going back.  That desire will not leave you.  A million dollar bonus will not get those to serve who have no desire.  If you still have that desire go and serve.  We need more who will.
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