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How many times does a person have to repent?
« on: December 17, 2011, 04:49:18 PM »
I repented from my sins when I turned 32 years old. I am under the impression that it's the first time that we do it, that it actually changes our lives and we get our new skins from Jesus.

From then on, I made sure that I didn't sin against other people by hurting them either directly or indirectly. However I did still make mistakes but they didn't have the hold on me the way they used to, I correct it but I don't feel the need to repent since they aren't sins against other people and Jesus already cleared me of sin once and for all.

Or do people need to continually repent even if they don't sin against another person yet they correct their mistakes?

When we are saved, are we even able to sin against others, i.e. condemning others after Jesus already saved them and us?







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« Reply #1 on: December 17, 2011, 05:45:16 PM »
I first repented of my sins - my wrong way of living, when I first truly turned to the lord, wanting Him to be part of my life. I still occasionally think or desire what I know to be wrong, and on these occasions I apoligise to God and get back on track. This truly wanting God in my life did change me because I rarely think of worldly things as I used to.

Although saved by Grace through Faith, we still sin and need to repent - turn back around, when we do.
1Jn 1:8  If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
1Jn 1:9  If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

So we ocassionally sin, then we confess and let go of that sin, and are in a right relationship with God again, I believe.

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Re: How many times does a person have to repent?
« Reply #2 on: December 17, 2011, 05:53:04 PM »
yes we do need to keep on repenting because we keep on sinning. We all sin, even if it is small things, we all fall far below perfection. 
If we are married for example, and we treat our spouses badly, dont we say sorry to them after wards? Its not just what we do directly to God that is sin, but what we do to others as well.

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« Reply #3 on: December 17, 2011, 06:04:39 PM »
I first repented of my sins - my wrong way of living, when I first truly turned to the lord, wanting Him to be part of my life. I still occasionally think or desire what I know to be wrong, and on these occasions I apoligise to God and get back on track. This truly wanting God in my life did change me because I rarely think of worldly things as I used to.

Does it seem to have the same hold on you as it did the first time you repented? It's a lot easier for me now when I do make a mistake, I don't feel the burden of it, just like Jesus promised his yoke is easy and the burden is light.

When you feel like you are thinking something wrong, is that a sin against yourself? I know those can be personal but I can't think of something that would cause me to sin against myself that I haven't already wiped out of my life. I suppose that's a good thing because if I do come across something that is a sin against myself, not knowingly aware of it, then it's easier to be forgiven, because we aren't sinning on purpose. I think because it's no longer intentional it makes the burden light, like a child spilling milk, no sense in making a fuss over it. Just clean up the mess!

I don't have any worldly interest, except the world wide web. Heck I even prefer to do my shopping here so I can avoid the world even more! lol! Makes me wonder if this is the second world talked about in the bible, that just popped in my head.

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Re: How many times does a person have to repent?
« Reply #4 on: December 17, 2011, 08:25:40 PM »
Since this is a question for someone trying to learn...

Lets start at the top with the types of sins.

Sins of Ignorance.
     Sins that you commit that you don't know are sins.

Sins of Negligence.
     Sins that you commit by not acting when you are supposed to act.

Planned Sins
     Sins that you have planned out to do and then done.

Sins of Self-righteousness/condemnation of others/unforgiveness of others.
   The worst sin. It is pride on steroids.


And that is just sins...that doesn't even cover transgressions.

Transgressions are ongoing sins that you cannot get yourself free of.  IE: a woman who met a man and they lived together so long that they had several children but are never legally married. She one day becomes a believer but has no financial means to move out or get her boyfriend to actually commit in marriage to her.

And where some people actually like to act in the manner that some of the planned sins and or transgressions are the worst sins...the pointing of them out is part and parcel with the Accuser of the Bretheren...IE SATAN...so it is always best not to point a finger at anyone.


Repent literally means to turn around...to change direction. Jesus had several women who followed him who were once prostitutes...they left their careers and followed Jesus and took care of his and the other apostles needs. They decided; live or die they would rather have Jesus and subscribe to his ideals than their former lifestyles. And as a result many of them did literally die...but still received eternal life.


Most everyone knows the song "Amazing Grace". What most people don't know is that the man who wrote that song was once a slaver. Meaning that he went to africa, took, and/or bought slaves and then brought them to one of the Americas for sale.

The day that he repented of his sins he carefully noted...but continued to run his slaving business for another two years.


And when Jesus says that we are to forgive someone who repents 70 times 7 that means always forgive someone who repents. Those that do not repent....well...we are supposed to show them grace for their inability to see their own shortcomings.
And that sometimes gets to be a real difficult task.   

 


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Re: How many times does a person have to repent?
« Reply #5 on: December 18, 2011, 05:14:02 AM »
Thanks for all the definitions John!

I just realized that it wasn't 77x's that Jesus told us to forgive but 70x7 which is 490 times! Which goes to show the patience we need to display with other people and how patient God is with us. Might as well forget about being able to stop forgiving people!  rofl
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« Reply #6 on: December 18, 2011, 10:29:06 AM »
Yes, we are able to sin after being saved.

Even after we are saved and we sin, we should repent.



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Re: How many times does a person have to repent?
« Reply #7 on: December 18, 2011, 06:02:36 PM »
This is the deal.

Salvation is about living a life like God - not because you have to, but because you actually buy into it as THE way to live.


Given that, when we don't live in that way, we want to return to the path we have chosen.

That's called repentance.


There isn't going to be a checklist with parallel columns of "sins" and "repented" that have to match.

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« Reply #8 on: December 18, 2011, 06:38:03 PM »
God sees our hearts.  Yes, when we sin we will feel like repenting for it especially if we know it is a sin.  We want to be in right standing with God because we know that's the only way to live.  We are either living with God or without Him.  We've already lived without Him and that was terrible.  For me, when I sin I have to repent as the urge is irresistable.  It's like hurting the God that died to save you.  How can we be so callous?  I guess that's just me.  Anyway...
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Re: How many times does a person have to repent?
« Reply #9 on: December 19, 2011, 02:57:09 AM »
But isn't the burden of it much lighter for anyone to not feel the guilt they did when they initially repented?

That's how Jesus has made it for me, so much easier to deal with. And it's gone the moment I take notice of it.

Acknowledging it as a sin is repentance in itself and then I am free from it and it doesn't come back.

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Re: How many times does a person have to repent?
« Reply #10 on: December 19, 2011, 09:17:32 AM »
Yes, we are able to sin after being saved.

Even after we are saved and we sin, we should repent.



This is the deal.

Salvation is about living a life like God - not because you have to, but because you actually buy into it as THE way to live.


Given that, when we don't live in that way, we want to return to the path we have chosen.

That's called repentance.


There isn't going to be a checklist with parallel columns of "sins" and "repented" that have to match.
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« Reply #11 on: December 21, 2011, 03:34:38 PM »
Here's a thought for consideration:  Repentance is God's gift to us in that it is an opportunity to experience God lavishing His love, mercy and grace upon us.

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« Reply #12 on: December 21, 2011, 04:06:20 PM »
Here's a thought for consideration:  Repentance is God's gift to us in that it is an opportunity to experience God lavishing His love, mercy and grace upon us.
Steve not sure what you are saying but sounds like you just told me that God repents for me.

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« Reply #13 on: December 21, 2011, 04:46:05 PM »

Or do people need to continually repent even if they don't sin against another person yet they correct their mistakes?

We're all sinners.  ::nodding::  Hence, repentance is a continual process for anyone who desires to please God.

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« Reply #14 on: December 22, 2011, 02:14:43 AM »
Here's a thought for consideration:  Repentance is God's gift to us in that it is an opportunity to experience God lavishing His love, mercy and grace upon us.
Steve not sure what you are saying but sounds like you just told me that God repents for me.

It doesn't sound like he said that to me. From what I hear in his words, he is saying that repentance is a gift from God given to us. It's probably one of the greatest things he can give us because it gives us the opportunity to change. This is where his love for us begins.