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« Reply #300 on: November 01, 2009, 05:40:11 PM »

Good piece, oman.

I think the wearing of headcoverings applied to all women in their culture who were not sexually loose, (whether as an occupation, a way of survival, or just an obsession,) in the same way women in the Middle East are required to have headcoverings today.  It doesn't/didn't represent Christ/Christianity at all, but simply male authority.

The wearing of a headcovering is not what  brings me closer to Christ.  He draws me closer to Him.  Any "sense of reverence" I have is because of the condition of my heart, not because of my headgear.  I separate myself by how I live my life in service to others.  Same for my husband.  Truly, what goes on my head is nothing.  It's what goes into it that counts.

If a woman chooses to wear one, that's fine, but there is no Scriptural mandate and should never be required by her church or her husband, nor should she require it of other women. 

It's a sign, all right, but I'm not sure it says what they want it to.
 



Thank you Phoebe and as usual you are correct and our walk with Christ is paramount. People have always made a declaration of their faith so I wondered how you feel about this open declaration yourself? (I realise it doesn't affect your personal relationship with Christ.)

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Do you feel the wearing of a head covering would symbolise your submission to Christ?



Last question first:  No, I do not feel a headcovering would symbolize my submission to Christ.

Not sure what you meant exactly in the first question.  I declared my faith publicly when I was a young teen.  I repeat that declaration still in so many ways by how I live my life, but not by what I wear around my neck or on my head.  I don't wear a burqa, or a habit,  or a "collar" to show Christ is my Lord.  Scripture says they will know we are Christians by our love.  Indeed.  That is what I wear to show my submission to my Savior.

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« Reply #301 on: November 01, 2009, 06:08:05 PM »

Another question for the "culture" argument: how do you explain, according to your point of view, why Paul demanded that men had their heads uncovered?

What's your "cultural context" explanation for that? (why do you think Paul said a man shouldn't have his head covered?)
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« Reply #302 on: November 01, 2009, 06:09:57 PM »

I actually believe that my husband is the head of the family, but I dont believe that God is asking me to cover my head, and my husband doesn't either.Neither he nor I have ever felt convicted of this and he has been a christian for 46 years and I have been one for 38 or so years, so I really think that if I were disobeying God He would havd told me by now..
If it really were that important to God He would have told the millions of Christians who dont cover their heads to do so.
I have never actually met a single man or women who feels that God wants us to do this in all the years that I have been a  christisn.
I think God is more concerned with how many people are going to hell for eternity.

Well, it seems all of the Crhistians for the last 1500 years didn't feel the same as you do.
   

Its not just me it is 99% of Christians, or 100% of those that I have known in my life. I have no idea why it is of such enormous importance to a few people to warrant such an enormous thread. Goodness Jesus could come soon and we are  telling people that they have to wear hats. No wonder people dont want to come to church.We do need some common sense really..

Seeker friendly churches. Yeah, that's the answer. Who needs doctrine anyway... ?

Nice sarcasm, "Pastor".
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« Reply #303 on: November 01, 2009, 07:54:28 PM »

I also have another question for V:

What, in your view, was happening when Jesus was baptized, a dove came upon him (the Holy Spirit), and God the Father spoke from the sky saying, "this is my Son, whom I love . . ."

How do you explain that, I wonder?

And Jesus' prayers . . .  charades?


Explain it?  I don't explain it...I accept it.  No "charades" (The Jehovah's Witnesses dodge this issue by making the Christ a created being of arch-angel status and the Holy Spirit is a non-personal force/energy).  God the Father spoke from heaven; God the Spirit decended upon Jesus in the form of a dove; God the Son was baptized by John in the Jordan river and received the affirmation of God the Father in voice and action.  All is of God, by God, and for God.  There is relationship in and of God that is for us metaphorically described in familial terms.

If you want to study further wikipedia has an excellent article on the Trinity.  Below are excerpts;

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The Christian doctrine of the Trinity teaches the unity of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit as three persons in one Godhead.[1] It should be noted that the concept of personhood in the Trinity does not match the common Western understanding of "person" as used in the English language—it does not imply an "individual, self-actualized center of free will and conscious activity.":pp. 185-6. To the ancients, personhood "was in some sense individual, but always in community as well.":p.186 The doctrine states that God is the Triune God, existing as three persons, or in the Greek hypostases, but one being. Each of the persons is understood as having the one identical essence or nature, not merely similar natures. Since the beginning of the third century the doctrine of the Trinity has been stated as "the one God exists in three Persons and one substance, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit."Trinitarianism, belief in the Trinity, is a mark of Oriental and Eastern Orthodoxy, Roman Catholicism and all the mainstream traditions arising from the Protestant Reformation, such as Anglicanism, Methodism, Lutheranism and Presbyterianism. The Oxford Dictionary of the Christian Church describes the Trinity as "the central dogma of Christian theology"



Economic and ontological Trinity

Economic Trinity: This refers to the acts of the triune God with respect to the creation, history, salvation, the formation of the Church, the daily lives of believers, etc. and describes how the Trinity operates within history in terms of the roles or functions performed by each of the Persons of the Trinity—God's relationship with creation.

Ontological (or essential or immanent) Trinity: This speaks of the interior life of the Trinity[John 1:1–2]—the reciprocal relationships of Father, Son and Spirit to each other without reference to God's relationship with creation.

Or more simply—the ontological Trinity (who God is) and the economic Trinity (what God does). Most Christians believe the economic reflects and reveals the ontological. Catholic theologian Karl Rahner went so far as to say "The 'economic' Trinity is the 'immanent' Trinity, and vice versa."[79]

The ancient Nicene theologians argued that everything the Trinity does is done by Father, Son, and Spirit working together with one will. The three persons of the Trinity always work inseparably, for their work is always the work of the one God. Because of this unity of will, the Trinity cannot involve the eternal subordination of the Son to the Father. Eternal subordination can only exist if the Son's will is at least conceivably different from the Father's. But Nicene orthodoxy says it is not. The Son's will cannot be different from the Father's because it is the Father's. They have but one will as they have but one being. Otherwise they would not be one God. If there were relations of command and obedience between the Father and the Son, there would be no Trinity at all but rather three gods.[80]

In explaining why the Bible speaks of the Son as being subordinate to the Father, the great theologian Athanasius argued that scripture gives a "double account" of the son of God—one of his temporal and voluntary subordination in the incarnation, and the other of his eternal divine status.[81] For Athanasius, the Son is eternally one in being with the Father, temporally and voluntarily subordinate in his incarnate ministry. Such human traits, he argued, were not to be read back into the eternal Trinity.

Like Athanasius, the Cappadocian Fathers also insisted there was no economic inequality present within the Trinity. As Basil wrote: "We perceive the operation of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit to be one and the same, in no respect showing differences or variation; from this identity of operation we necessarily infer the unity of nature."[82]

Augustine also rejected the idea of an economic hierarchy within the Trinity. He claimed that the three persons of the Trinity "share the inseparable equality one substance present in divine unity".[83] Because the three persons are one in their inner life, this means that for Augustine their works in the world are one. For this reason, it is an impossibility for Augustine to speak of the Father commanding and the Son obeying as if there could be a conflict of wills within the eternal Trinity.

John Calvin also spoke at length about the doctrine of the Trinity. Like Athanasius and Augustine before him, he concluded that Philippians 2:4-11 prescribed how scripture was to be read correctly. For him the Son's obedience is limited to the incarnation and is indicative of his true humanity assumed for human salvation.[84]

Much of this work is summed up in the Athanasian Creed. This creed stresses the unity of the Trinity and the equality of the persons. It ascribes equal divinity, majesty, and authority to all three persons. All three are said to be "almighty" and "Lord" (no subordination in authority; "none is before or after another" (no hierarchical ordering); and "none is greater, or less than another" (no subordination in being or nature). Thus, since the divine persons of the Trinity act with one will, there is no possibility of hierarchy-inequality in the Trinity.

Since the 1980s, some evangelical theologians have come to the conclusion that the members of the Trinity may be economically unequal while remaining ontologically equal. This theory was put forward by George W. Knight III in his 1977 book The New Testament Teaching on the Role Relationship of Men and Women, states that the Son of God is eternally subordinated in authority to God the Father. This conclusion was used as a means of supporting the main thesis of his book: that women are permanently subordinated in authority to their husbands in the home and to male leaders in the church, despite being ontologically equal. Subscribers to this theory insist that the Father has the role of giving commands and the Son has the role of obeying them.


Gotagoodwife puts the emphasis of head covering in terms of attention to God's glory. I'm appreciative of that.  Unlike you, however, his emphasis is not on hierarchy/chain of command, which in terms of the Godhead would necessarily infer different wills of different individuals, thus more than One God--polytheism.



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« Reply #304 on: November 01, 2009, 09:10:55 PM »

I actually believe that my husband is the head of the family, but I dont believe that God is asking me to cover my head, and my husband doesn't either.Neither he nor I have ever felt convicted of this and he has been a christian for 46 years and I have been one for 38 or so years, so I really think that if I were disobeying God He would havd told me by now..
If it really were that important to God He would have told the millions of Christians who dont cover their heads to do so.
I have never actually met a single man or women who feels that God wants us to do this in all the years that I have been a  christisn.
I think God is more concerned with how many people are going to hell for eternity.

Well, it seems all of the Crhistians for the last 1500 years didn't feel the same as you do.
   

Its not just me it is 99% of Christians, or 100% of those that I have known in my life. I have no idea why it is of such enormous importance to a few people to warrant such an enormous thread. Goodness Jesus could come soon and we are  telling people that they have to wear hats. No wonder people dont want to come to church.We do need some common sense really..

Seeker friendly churches. Yeah, that's the answer. Who needs doctrine anyway... ?

Nice sarcasm, "Pastor".


Thanks, "Phoebe."
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« Reply #305 on: November 01, 2009, 10:32:09 PM »

I actually believe that my husband is the head of the family, but I dont believe that God is asking me to cover my head, and my husband doesn't either.Neither he nor I have ever felt convicted of this and he has been a christian for 46 years and I have been one for 38 or so years, so I really think that if I were disobeying God He would havd told me by now..
If it really were that important to God He would have told the millions of Christians who dont cover their heads to do so.
I have never actually met a single man or women who feels that God wants us to do this in all the years that I have been a  christisn.
I think God is more concerned with how many people are going to hell for eternity.

Well, it seems all of the Crhistians for the last 1500 years didn't feel the same as you do.
   

Its not just me it is 99% of Christians, or 100% of those that I have known in my life. I have no idea why it is of such enormous importance to a few people to warrant such an enormous thread. Goodness Jesus could come soon and we are  telling people that they have to wear hats. No wonder people dont want to come to church.We do need some common sense really..

Personally, I don't think head coverings are the issue. I believe it is a rebellious attitude that is at the heart of the issue, and that is serious. I mean if it is silly then why not wear the head covering? What would be better, to stand before God and have to answer for not wearing it or stand before God and have Him say you really didn't need it? However, that fact that there are all of these pages speaks to the rebellious attitude of Christianity in America. What exempts the last 50 years of American women that didn't exempt the last 1500 years of Christians women? As I said in the other post, Americans feel they can come to God on their own terms. There is a description of the American church in the Bible.

Revelation 3:14-22 ( KJV )
And unto the angel of the church of the Laodiceans write; These things saith the Amen, the faithful and true witness, the beginning of the creation of God; 
I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would thou wert cold or hot. 
So then because thou art lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spue thee out of my mouth. 
Because thou sayest, I am rich, and increased with goods, and have need of nothing; and knowest not that thou art wretched, and miserable, and poor, and blind, and naked: 
I counsel thee to buy of me gold tried in the fire, that thou mayest be rich; and white raiment, that thou mayest be clothed, and that the shame of thy nakedness do not appear; and anoint thine eyes with eyesalve, that thou mayest see. 
As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten: be zealous therefore, and repent. 
Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me. 
To him that overcometh will I grant to sit with me in my throne, even as I also overcame, and am set down with my Father in his throne. 
He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches.


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« Reply #306 on: November 01, 2009, 10:36:41 PM »

Butch. You asked this:

"The idea that Paul was dealing with some cultural issue, ie. Paul said this because of the culture of his time."


My reply is that Paul had been sent for and asked for advice because there was trouble in the church at Corinth concerning the life and culture and lifestyle of the people as you can see from these scriptures:

1:10 I appeal to you, brothers, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree with one another so that there may be no divisions among you and that you may be perfectly united in mind and thought. My brothers, some from Chloe's household have informed me that there are quarrels among you. What I mean is this: One of you says, "I follow Paul"; another, "I follow Apollos"; another, "I follow Cephas"; still another, "I follow Christ."

Is Christ divided? Was Paul crucified for you? Were you baptised into the name of Paul? I am thankful that I did not baptise any of you except Crispus and Gaius, so no one can say that you were baptised into my name.


5:1 It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you, and of a kind that does not occur even among pagans: A man has his father's wife.

7:1 Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry. But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.

Here Paul was given more news about what had been happening
16:17 I was glad when Stephanas, Fortunatus and Achaicus arrived, because they have supplied what was lacking from you.




I agree there was strife, contention, and quarrels in the Church at Corinth. My question was asking for some historical evidence to show that Paul's statements were based on a cultural issue. In the Scriptures Paul makes no mention of the culture at all. His appeal is to headship.
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« Reply #307 on: November 01, 2009, 11:06:10 PM »

Phoebe, something I would be interested in reading would be your full exposition of what Paul meant in 1 cor 11:1-16. I went back through this whole thread and could not find anything like that, just bits and pieces here and there. Do it like you would explain it to someone unfamiliar with the topic, and explain the various verses, so that we can see what Paul meant by them.

What did Paul say, and why did he say it?

Right now things are mostly a lot of going back and forth about comparatively abstract details, so why not lay the big picture out for us, along with such details as would make the whole thing comprehensible to a new believer. Then maybe whatever we discuss from then on would be more worthwhile.

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« Reply #308 on: November 01, 2009, 11:44:51 PM »

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Quite simply, I believe in what 1 Corinthians 11:3-12 says with respect to context:

"Man was not made for woman, but woman for man, for this cause, and because of the angels, a woman ought to have a sign of authority on her head."

Try reading that out loud and see what happens. Emphasize the "for this cause," part. Then try saying it backwards:

"A woman ought to have a sign of authority on her head, for the cause of man not being made for woman, but woman for man . . ." (and the "image of God" details also). And as keeps being pointed out, 1 Corinthians 11:3 ends with "the head of Christ is God" and that whole passage ends in that same rhythm: "Everything comes from God."

I am quite familiar with the unbelievers who do detest such a concept, of woman being made for man, and being derived of him (among all of the other things that go hand-in-hand with that). Not that I'm one for throwing pearls to swine out in the world, but that's definitely where all the indictment comes from: American culture, such as it is, not the Word.

And yes, it's "for God's glory," because that's how God designed us to interact and work together as a body.

What I think I'm seeing with trinity and this weird difficulty you seem to be having seeing a God who interacts with the universe in three different ways is similar to those who cannot explain things like Romans 9--the fact is that "trinity" and all its derivations are made-up, and weakly-defended by scripture. The Father is outside of time--the Father who knows and IS the Beginning and the end. The Son is within time and knows sequence, and it is not hard to see why this is underneath the Father, is the form of God that interacts with us in our sorts of terms and perspectives. The Holy Spirit is simply the name of God's (and of course, therefore, Christ's) spirit imparted.

Yes, they are all God. The "trinity" is very cute imagery but that's about it. They are different expressions of the same God, not a God that SPLIT Himself into three but rather expresses himself in separate ways, while also being one but one who connects with the universe, while the Father is completely around it and is decidedly the "head." (or ORIGIN and highest of those expressions--therefore authority, from whom Christ had to draw through prayer: John 5)

By the way, it is on that sort of basis that I understand "respecting elders" (in much the way Christ did, of course, not barring me from rebuking as I ought to)--seniority is a dimension of authority again. It was with first-borns, "for Adam was not formed first, but Eve" (therefore woman will not have authority over a man), and of course, the Lord. The origin affords respect and authority--each of those are a bit different (it's far from unheard of for the young to teach the old in scripture). Yet another is parents and their children.

The sum of it all? Origin (or the word "source" we like to throw around) is the basis of authority. They go together. Yet again, see Ephesians 1:20-23. That's how it works.

What part of "authority" is supposed to be objectionable to you? Paul had said that there ought to be judges in the church to judge disputes between believers. What is that, if not authority--they issue an order at the end and it is absolutely followed. If their judgment is bad and conflicts with "upper-management" so to speak (the highest being God of course), then God will overthrow it, and that's what happens when any church authority or leadership goes bad.

Yes, you can call it "hierarchy," and I say that in spite of the fact that that is another dirty word to you. Is this in conflict with servanthood? Romans 13 makes it clear that "authority" is a form of servant, who answers to God (like everyone else) but also is not waiting for orders from those it is appointed authority over.
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« Reply #309 on: November 02, 2009, 08:20:14 AM »

I actually believe that my husband is the head of the family, but I dont believe that God is asking me to cover my head, and my husband doesn't either.Neither he nor I have ever felt convicted of this and he has been a christian for 46 years and I have been one for 38 or so years, so I really think that if I were disobeying God He would havd told me by now..
If it really were that important to God He would have told the millions of Christians who dont cover their heads to do so.
I have never actually met a single man or women who feels that God wants us to do this in all the years that I have been a  christisn.
I think God is more concerned with how many people are going to hell for eternity.


Butch and others will point out an inconsistency.  The main proof-text that is used to teach that the "husband is the head of the family" is conjoined in the same text with head-coverings.  If "head" is interpreted as "head over" then can't have "head over" without head-covering of women.


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« Reply #310 on: November 02, 2009, 08:32:16 AM »

V:

Quite simply, I believe in what 1 Corinthians 11:3-12 says with respect to context:

"Man was not made for woman, but woman for man, for this cause, and because of the angels, a woman ought to have a sign of authority on her head."

Try reading that out loud and see what happens. Emphasize the "for this cause," part. Then try saying it backwards:

"A woman ought to have a sign of authority on her head, for the cause of man not being made for woman, but woman for man . . ." (and the "image of God" details also). And as keeps being pointed out, 1 Corinthians 11:3 ends with "the head of Christ is God" and that whole passage ends in that same rhythm: "Everything comes from God."

I am quite familiar with the unbelievers who do detest such a concept, of woman being made for man, and being derived of him (among all of the other things that go hand-in-hand with that). Not that I'm one for throwing pearls to swine out in the world, but that's definitely where all the indictment comes from: American culture, such as it is, not the Word.

And yes, it's "for God's glory," because that's how God designed us to interact and work together as a body.

What I think I'm seeing with trinity and this weird difficulty you seem to be having seeing a God who interacts with the universe in three different ways is similar to those who cannot explain things like Romans 9--the fact is that "trinity" and all its derivations are made-up, and weakly-defended by scripture. The Father is outside of time--the Father who knows and IS the Beginning and the end. The Son is within time and knows sequence, and it is not hard to see why this is underneath the Father, is the form of God that interacts with us in our sorts of terms and perspectives. The Holy Spirit is simply the name of God's (and of course, therefore, Christ's) spirit imparted.

Yes, they are all God. The "trinity" is very cute imagery but that's about it. They are different expressions of the same God, not a God that SPLIT Himself into three but rather expresses himself in separate ways, while also being one but one who connects with the universe, while the Father is completely around it and is decidedly the "head." (or ORIGIN and highest of those expressions--therefore authority, from whom Christ had to draw through prayer: John 5)

By the way, it is on that sort of basis that I understand "respecting elders" (in much the way Christ did, of course, not barring me from rebuking as I ought to)--seniority is a dimension of authority again. It was with first-borns, "for Adam was not formed first, but Eve" (therefore woman will not have authority over a man), and of course, the Lord. The origin affords respect and authority--each of those are a bit different (it's far from unheard of for the young to teach the old in scripture). Yet another is parents and their children.

The sum of it all? Origin (or the word "source" we like to throw around) is the basis of authority. They go together. Yet again, see Ephesians 1:20-23. That's how it works.

What part of "authority" is supposed to be objectionable to you? Paul had said that there ought to be judges in the church to judge disputes between believers. What is that, if not authority--they issue an order at the end and it is absolutely followed. If their judgment is bad and conflicts with "upper-management" so to speak (the highest being God of course), then God will overthrow it, and that's what happens when any church authority or leadership goes bad.

Yes, you can call it "hierarchy," and I say that in spite of the fact that that is another dirty word to you. Is this in conflict with servanthood? Romans 13 makes it clear that "authority" is a form of servant, who answers to God (like everyone else) but also is not waiting for orders from those it is appointed authority over.


...round and round it goes, where it'll stop nobody knows...

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« Reply #311 on: November 02, 2009, 10:12:51 AM »

Phoebe, something I would be interested in reading would be your full exposition of what Paul meant in 1 cor 11:1-16. I went back through this whole thread and could not find anything like that, just bits and pieces here and there. Do it like you would explain it to someone unfamiliar with the topic, and explain the various verses, so that we can see what Paul meant by them.

What did Paul say, and why did he say it?

Right now things are mostly a lot of going back and forth about comparatively abstract details, so why not lay the big picture out for us, along with such details as would make the whole thing comprehensible to a new believer. Then maybe whatever we discuss from then on would be more worthwhile.

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Mr. Got - That would be throwing good seed on rock-hard ground, would it not?

In addition, that takes hours of work, hours that I don't have this week.  Are you worthy of my time....?  I am in the middle of trying to replace our vehicle that met it's death when meeting full-on with a young black angus bull (who also met his death) the other night so that my mutually submissive husband and I can leave tomorrow for a brief, but long-planned vacation.  I will be rockin' out with Three Dog Night ( Disco ), a gift from my kids, and enjoying the sunshine (finally!), tranquility, and beauty of the Ozark lakes.  If I feel so inclined, I will take some of my reference materials with me and exegete the passage.  If not, well, I will be quite happy to forget about "headcoverings" for a few days.

ITM, here is a link to an article that provides a good basis for my understanding of kephale:

http://bilezikian.com/gbilezikian/publications/maleheadship.html

I will leave you with this beginning:

11:2 says that "Now I praise you, brethren, that ye remember me in all things, and keep the ordinances, as I delivered them to you."  (KJV all right with you?)

First, I notice that the "remember" is of Paul, not Christ.  But a gentle way of beginning a correction.  Very smart of Paul. He will correct that "remember" as he goes.

Second, the word translated in the KJV as 'ordinances' = paradosis, "traditions"

Those "traditions" were Jewish traditions.  Not even necessarily Old Law, as one of the things Saul was known for was being a Jews Jews, well-known for stretching Moses' Law to suit themselves as did the old rabbis.  As Paul lived in his new-found Christian faith, do you think he let go of that all at once, or do you think it was a maturing process where he began to release these old traditions and old laws?  Or are you of the belief that we are to hold fast to the Old Law and its traditions?


"Tradition" is a big hurdle for contemporary mandated headcovering for women to overcome.





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« Reply #312 on: November 02, 2009, 10:46:40 AM »

For Cally and Butch re. Culture.

Corinth stood in a strategic position on a trade route across the narrow neck of land between the Aegean and Adriatic. It was a thriving centre of commerce and a cosmopolitan city where people of different cultures, Greeks, Latins, Syrians, Asiatics, Egyptians and Jews rubbed shoulders with one another.

Paul needed to build the Christian church from its members who were a cultural mix of various pagan religions plus the Jewish religion. He spent 18 months there which is about the longest he ever spent in one place, along with Apollos and Cephas (Peter) teaching and resolving disputes.

Seeing as we are all one in Christ Paul brought the women out from behind the mechitza which is a partition or screen that divided the men from the women and at the same time the men were to remove their skull cap [kippah or yarmulke] which is a symbol of their awareness of, and submission to, a "higher" entity. There is no authority for the skull cap in the Bible but it had entered their culture. The screen separating the men from the women had gone but for the women the prayer shawl (head covering) remained and I am guessing that something so engrained in their culture was too big a step for them to make after they had gone one step already and come out from behind their screen, so the prayer shawl or the head covering stayed.

There is no scriptural reason for either the skull cap or the prayer shawl but I would imagine Paul needed to consider the peoples own cultural traditions they had grown up with from being babies and such tradition is hard to throw aside, so Paul used as his authority the theme from creation ("For the first man didn’t come from woman, but the first woman came from man" KJV) where Christ came first, then man and then woman and this is where the headship comes in with Christ being head over all and the man being the head of the woman.
(I have difficulty with this myself and Paul did go out of his way to stress our mutuality. I wonder if this is a device he used?)

There is no biblical authority for a head covering and Paul had some difficult cultural issues to deal with. The other cultural issue however was the fact that women of ill-repute went round bare headed while honourable women wore a head covering. This was also part of their culture and the thought crossed my mind that if Christian women wanted to make a statement they could perhaps go back to wearing a hat, which at one time was part of our Christian culture, like the women of Corinth due to the fact it represented purity and therefore was honourable and a glory to God and by association to their husband, but that was purely my own thought.



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« Reply #313 on: November 02, 2009, 12:10:55 PM »

Phoebe, something I would be interested in reading would be your full exposition of what Paul meant in 1 cor 11:1-16. I went back through this whole thread and could not find anything like that, just bits and pieces here and there. Do it like you would explain it to someone unfamiliar with the topic, and explain the various verses, so that we can see what Paul meant by them.

What did Paul say, and why did he say it?

Right now things are mostly a lot of going back and forth about comparatively abstract details, so why not lay the big picture out for us, along with such details as would make the whole thing comprehensible to a new believer. Then maybe whatever we discuss from then on would be more worthwhile.

Thanks

Mr. Got - That would be throwing good seed on rock-hard ground, would it not?

In addition, that takes hours of work, hours that I don't have this week.  Are you worthy of my time....?  I am in the middle of trying to replace our vehicle that met it's death when meeting full-on with a young black angus bull (who also met his death) the other night so that my mutually submissive husband and I can leave tomorrow for a brief, but long-planned vacation.  I will be rockin' out with Three Dog Night ( Disco ), a gift from my kids, and enjoying the sunshine (finally!), tranquility, and beauty of the Ozark lakes.  If I feel so inclined, I will take some of my reference materials with me and exegete the passage.  If not, well, I will be quite happy to forget about "headcoverings" for a few days.

ITM, here is a link to an article that provides a good basis for my understanding of kephale:

http://bilezikian.com/gbilezikian/publications/maleheadship.html

I will leave you with this beginning:

11:2 says that "Now I praise you, brethren, that ye remember me in all things, and keep the ordinances, as I delivered them to you."  (KJV all right with you?)

First, I notice that the "remember" is of Paul, not Christ.  But a gentle way of beginning a correction.  Very smart of Paul. He will correct that "remember" as he goes.

Second, the word translated in the KJV as 'ordinances' = paradosis, "traditions"

Those "traditions" were Jewish traditions.  Not even necessarily Old Law, as one of the things Saul was known for was being a Jews Jews, well-known for stretching Moses' Law to suit themselves as did the old rabbis.  As Paul lived in his new-found Christian faith, do you think he let go of that all at once, or do you think it was a maturing process where he began to release these old traditions and old laws?  Or are you of the belief that we are to hold fast to the Old Law and its traditions?


"Tradition" is a big hurdle for contemporary mandated headcovering for women to overcome.


Sorry about your vehicle. I have a perfectly functional 95 Jeep Grand Cherokee I will loan you if you want it, I am in E TN.,  let me know.

Hard Ground?  Sounds like the pot is calling the kettle black, by your own admission you have spent twenty years consolidating your position, so I don't expect you to change. I have been wrestling with this since 1981, when we moved to this area and started to going to churches where no women cover.
My wife (who has been a Christian a lot longer than me, knows the Scriptures, and covers in church) had to put up with a lot of stupid flack about it and that made me a serious student of the topic.

I am not expecting either one of us to change our positions, I just want to know what you think the passage is saying. That should not take very long, I only asked for something simple. But you are saying it would take hours of work to explain what 1 Cor 11:1-16 means?  Scratching head....a little confused.

Maybe I am not worthy of your time,  We're not worthy!  but there are others besides me who will read this, and it's not like it takes a term paper to explain it. Here is the link to our church web page, it's simple, it's easy to comprehend, and it doesn't require deconstructing what Paul says in order to try and make him say what we want him to say:
http://www.bcchapel.org/questions/HeadCoverings1Cor11.html

I found your link interesting, and it does a good job of setting forth the contemporary egalitarian understanding of kephale. However, I am not persuaded that this recent understanding of the word as primarily meaning "source" is persuasive or accurate, compare it with Grudem's exposition:
http://www.biblicalstudies.org.uk/pdf/kephale.pdf

And you are still welcome to borrow the Jeep. Seriously. PM me if you want it.
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« Reply #314 on: November 02, 2009, 01:39:00 PM »

Thanks for the jeep offer.  That was kind.  I am leaving now to pick up a vehicle.  MO is a bit of a commute to TN.


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