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Christian Interests => Christian Singles Forum => : JMK2348 Thu Dec 17, 2015 - 13:49:54

: Moving on from a break up
: JMK2348 Thu Dec 17, 2015 - 13:49:54
Hi everyone,

Can we fail God if we break up with someone we are not sure/ready to marry? This person moves on and gets married.

What's the biblical view,
Did we fail God when he was calling us to marry someone or God was never calling us to marry in the first place? But still allowed us to get in a relationship in the first place for his purposes.


: Re: Moving on from a break up
: chosenone Thu Dec 17, 2015 - 16:17:22
Not sure there is a biblical view because generally marriages were arranged then anyway. 
Never marry someone if you are not sure they are the one.  If that person is now married then stop looking back and asking yourself these questions to which you may never know the answer.  IF he/she has since married then I expect they think their spouse is the one for them and that you werent.
: Re: Moving on from a break up
: Star of David Thu Dec 17, 2015 - 16:49:05
: JMK2348  Thu Dec 17, 2015 - 13:49:54
Hi everyone,

Can we fail God if we break up with someone we are not sure/ready to marry? This person moves on and gets married.

What's the biblical view,
Did we fail God when he was calling us to marry someone or God was never calling us to marry in the first place? But still allowed us to get in a relationship in the first place for his purposes.

I was never aware that God ever called on any person to marry a certain other person.  It's a mutual decision on the part of the two individuals. And there's that gift of free will that God gave to each of us.