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: I want sex all the time. wife not so keen
: A4J Thu Feb 11, 2016 - 07:08:17
Married for a year now and I'm like a dog on heat, all I want all of the time is sex, I don't however always get it. I think my wife fails to understand me I have tried speaking to her about it, but it only gets better for a while, we use to have such a great sex life
: Re: I want sex all the time. wife not so keen
: Alma1995 Mon Feb 29, 2016 - 12:25:11
Hello, this is my first time replying a thread. When having a high sex drive it's not bad thing itself some external issues (work stress, sick relative,etc) may give you the need to "relax" ergo want to have sex. If this is not your case, I believe you have to be open to your wife and explain her how you feel and remember that sex is a thing between two people in love. Your wife might think you only want to "use" her to satisfy yourself.
: Re: I want sex all the time. wife not so keen
: LexKnight Mon Feb 29, 2016 - 12:31:25
I'm just gonna leave this here.

The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
: Re: I want sex all the time. wife not so keen
: Jason_NC Thu Mar 03, 2016 - 16:45:15
: A4J  Thu Feb 11, 2016 - 07:08:17
Married for a year now and I'm like a dog on heat, all I want all of the time is sex, I don't however always get it. I think my wife fails to understand me I have tried speaking to her about it, but it only gets better for a while, we use to have such a great sex life

Are you loving her as Jesus loved the church?  Are you meeting her emotional needs?
: Re: I want sex all the time. wife not so keen
: Alma1995 Thu Mar 03, 2016 - 17:32:22
: Jason_NC  Thu Mar 03, 2016 - 16:45:15
: A4J  Thu Feb 11, 2016 - 07:08:17
Married for a year now and I'm like a dog on heat, all I want all of the time is sex, I don't however always get it. I think my wife fails to understand me I have tried speaking to her about it, but it only gets better for a while, we use to have such a great sex life

Are you loving her as Jesus loved the church?  Are you meeting her emotional needs?
I started thinking about the same thing. Maybe his wife is lacking something and "cuts off" sex in a way to get even.