Never mind
I would be very concern. I do not know, but you may at least slow him down from following his sinful lust, by warning him that such sin is against nature and the God who man him a male and gave him a sexual organ that is made for females, not males. Young people at early ages could experience with such sinful acts, but later get a hold of themselves and find their way through life by the grace of God. But approving of such actions would NEVER give them the sense of right and wrong if they see society, and especially parents approving of such wicked acts against nature.
Shame on you for not being a better example......but with God, there is forgiveness, and we all can be deeply thankful to God for his rich mercy to undeserving sinners such as we all are by nature.
Let me add one more thought that just came into my head...."Your wrong/sins Do NOT justify his sinful practices~ you as a parent STILL must guide your children in the way that they should go,
and can NOT leave them to themselves and the foolishness that is bound in their young foolish hearts!"
It does indeed make parents work so much easier when they themselves are godly, yet that within itself does not dimish their responsibility to guide their children in the way that they should go. No parent is without sin, so we must not allow our shortcomings to be a pass on our children's sins.
Meyerdj77,
I am so sorry. I don't know what your original post said or if you will even be back, but I just want to say that I am sorry.
This event must have been heartbreaking for you and caused you great fear.
Parenting is the hardest job in the planet and parents are held to very high bars of blame.
There are no perfect parents. We all struggle in some way with sin.
I think it's important that you acknowledge that with your boy. That you understand the temptation to sin, because you struggle as well (even if it's not in the same areas), but that there is great hope in that God promises us a way of escape from those temptations!
Pray for your boy, right in front of his very ears, ask him for forgiveness for any sin you may have committed against him, assure him of your love and devotion, and ask God for wisdom to know best how to handle this very hard situation.